My Ex came back and i have lost my peace of mind. .

[Rhetorical]

Hello People!

This is my first post on Loveshack.org. Have read a lot of posts and they have been really helpful

But, today i wish to ask something really specific and not generic.

 

I am Garry,Male,22 from New Delhi. I was in a relationship with a girl for 2.5 years and we broke up last year in October.

Our relationship started falling off in the first few months of 2012 and even though i tried to save it from falling apart, i couldnt and things went bad and i finally decided to put it to a halt and met my ex in a coffee shop to end things.

 

I was tired of the illogical fights and silence that used to be there and the repeated patterns of her not talking and then coming back and acting all lovey dovey and then not giving a **** afterall.

 

So, when i told her that i wish to break up and never see her again, she actually asked if it was my decision or a proposition.I was stunned.

 

Anyways, she tried getting in touch once or twice before May 1st and i called her once too.

Now, she pinged me on whatsapp on May 1st that she wishes to meet me.

we met on May 7th and May 14th. And i thought things will be fine. However, it was me who called her twice in the two weeks till 21st may and she did not.

We exchanged a few messages on whatsapp,though. But, that wasnt sufficient.

So, i went ahead and told her that i seek communication in a relationship and that silence doesnt work for me.

And that if we wish to be together, we should atleast talk.

To which she hasnt replied yet.

Now, the point is :

 

.. was i wrong in meeting her up in the first place?

..should i expect her to come back and act all fine?

..am i just wasting my time and thoughts on somebody who is just using me?

..also, do you think i never moved on?

 

Please help.