Honestly, does a non-wealthy guy stand a chance with hot, adult women?

[Treasa]

No, sorry, I think you misread that. I said a lot of women have thought Tom Cruise was a sex symbol. I didn't say they or I masturbate over him.

 

I usually get off to lesbian porn, although not always, truth be told.

 

And yes, I do consider Tom Cruise physically attractive.

[joystickd]

Hell yeah! You just have to get that mouthpiece right. You just have to look good too clothes wise. Funny thing is those wealthy wives some of them are probably secretly letting some broke guy get that P.

[phineas]

What's the cutoff point when a guy is tall enough to be considered attractive?

 

From where i'm standing i can clearly see anywhere between 5'7 3/4" & 5'8 1/4" is the ideal height for a man.

[Phoebe]

Yep... mostly Christian ones though. And even then it's (obviously) a subset of Christians. Plenty of "Christians" are rich hypocrites who just go to a building every week to feel better about themselves. There are also a lot of them who are genuinely good people. Some Christian women may have even avoided a lot of the corruption of western society. OP, your best bet is looking there. But if you're a hardcore atheist or otherwise just can't tolerate Christians... well I don't see much hope, honestly.

 

Are you seriously saying that only Christian women can be interested in a man for reasons other than money?!?!

[Treasa]

From where i'm standing i can clearly see anywhere between 5'7 3/4" & 5'8 1/4" is the ideal height for a man.

 

See, that attitude is sexy as hell.

[phineas]

Hell yeah! You just have to get that mouthpiece right. You just have to look good too clothes wise. Funny thing is those wealthy wives some of them are probably secretly letting some broke guy get that P.

 

and their husbands are probably banging someone else also.

 

The reality is a lot of those women only have one purpose. Be hot.

Who the hell wants to get with someone like that?

 

There are plenty of women just as hot who have goals, personality, a job ect that really don't care a whole lot about money other than that you can pay your bills.

[xxoo]

Are you seriously saying that only Christian women can be interested in a man for reasons other than money?!?!

 

Seriously, when I think of non-materialistic women, I think of buddhist hippie chicks first

[sillyanswer]

All the hot wives in my community are married to wealthy guys.

 

So you're living in the same neighborhood as these guys? So either it's not all that, or you can afford at least that level of lifestyle...

 

... or you're living in mom's basement?

[phineas]

Seriously, when I think of non-materialistic women, I think of buddhist hippie chicks first

 

That don't shave & are into their own smell natural.

[xxoo]

That don't shave & are into their own smell natural.

 

Some very hot guys are into that sort of thing

[ChessPieceFace]

Are you seriously saying that only Christian women can be interested in a man for reasons other than money?!?!

 

I said mostly. And yes, at the end of the day, when you're talking about what man a woman will marry, I believe that to be the case. Note the OP said "wives" and "marry." Not just "get some." You don't have to be rich just to "get some."

 

I'm going to laugh if any of you guys in here ever get a job where you make good money (IE six figures) and you're still in the same position. I'll be there to laugh at you for being a fool

 

Money means nothing, take it from somebody who speaks from experience.

 

Money being a general requirement for shallow western women to marry you, isn't the same as money being the only thing that matters. If you have money but you're a sad sack who's constantly depressed, then yes it probably won't buy you success. Well, maybe with a really desperate gold-digger.

 

Or have you had success, Sanitarium? I'd like to be surprised on this one.

Edited May 23, 2013 by ChessPieceFace

[SuperGeek]

I'm upper middle class and I can't "get" a "hot" girl unless I probably paid for an escort or something. I'm approaching my mid 30s and "hot" just doesn't seem that appealing to me any more.

 

I suppose if I am single at 45, then I'll probably consider the escort option, but only out of sheer loneliness.

[SuperGeek]

OK you can start laughing at me then. I'm in this ball park and I can't get girls. Laugh it up. It really sucks man.

I'm going to laugh if any of you guys in here ever get a job where you make good money (IE six figures) and you're still in the same position. I'll be there to laugh at you for being a fool

 

 

 

Money means nothing, take it from somebody who speaks from experience.

[SuperGeek]

What you're saying is true for the most part, but six figures or having a 'job' is not being rich, but barely middle class where I live. Try 300k,400k a year and someone that is respected in the community as a professional -- then you are more correct.

 

The true rich (i.e. 1%) have more opportunities for female attention than the average six figure job holder.

 

I know guys who make 10 million a year and they have women ready to do just about anything to get with them.

 

 

Of course not

 

 

And I'm not depressed...I'm a happy guy, I love my life, my friends, my family, my work

 

 

I'm just trying to tell these guys to get their head out of their asses. Money doesn't mean anything. They're going to be very disappointed to work their asses off to finally get to the job they want and then realize that they are still completely undesirable

[xxoo]

Questions for the guys on this thread:

 

Are you hot?

 

Are you happy with a woman as attractive as yourself?

[ltjg45]

Are you hot?

 

I wish I knew the answer to that question.

 

Are you happy with a woman as attractive as yourself?

 

Unless that woman happens to be my mother, then no. Even if she was, I couldn't tell you if she is more pretty or more ugly than me.

[SuperGeek]

What I've said is true, for the most part, but I'm generalizing.

 

Match makers are widely used by rich people. It's actually a smart thing to do as each potential girl/guy can be screened. Guys with that much cash don't want to get kidnapped or have their money stolen.

 

If this were true then millionaires wouldn't need matchmakers.

[xxoo]

Yes. It is almost summer.

 

Ah, yes, and think how much easier it will be to find hot women!

[SuperGeek]

Why even seek out 'hot' women? Seems like too much work.

 

It's like buying a Lamborghini and having to pay the high maintenance on it.

 

No thanks!

 

If you just want to get laid by some hot girl, then just buy an escort or something. Much cheaper and you don't have to 'bullsh*t' some girl into being with you.

[runningfar]

What you're saying is true for the most part, but six figures or having a 'job' is not being rich, but barely middle class where I live. Try 300k,400k a year and someone that is respected in the community as a professional -- then you are more correct.

 

The true rich (i.e. 1%) have more opportunities for female attention than the average six figure job holder.

 

I know guys who make 10 million a year and they have women ready to do just about anything to get with them.

 

You're right that six figures is not rich. My boyfriend makes over that and in our years as friends I wouldn't have even guessed. It's certainly comfortable. Right now, since we moved and I left my job to go with him to his new job, he is supporting both of us and it's comfortable. It's not lap of luxury, though.

 

The very rich have to worry about people after their money. I do not envy that. Who cares how hot your wife is if she isn't in love with you?

 

There is a point that it's pretty easy for women who care about personality to find someone with personality AND a reasonable income. I'm not saying you're 100% off base.

 

But income is just one thing on the list. It's not like there are two guys with exactly the same characteristics only differing in income. We're looking for a good match for us - there are so many characteristics more important than income, and then more equally important.

[SuperGeek]

The original post was about getting a 'hot' girl and didn't specify in what capacity. A lot of really rich guys suffer from gold diggers trying to date for money.

 

If it is well known that a guy is worth 100 million, he's going to get a ton of gold digger women out of the gate just after his money. My point is that, for a rich guy, it's easy to get sex/dates with hot girls, but finding a real relationship is going to be tough.

 

You're right that six figures is not rich. My boyfriend makes over that and in our years as friends I wouldn't have even guessed. It's certainly comfortable. Right now, since we moved and I left my job to go with him to his new job, he is supporting both of us and it's comfortable. It's not lap of luxury, though.

 

The very rich have to worry about people after their money. I do not envy that. Who cares how hot your wife is if she isn't in love with you?

 

There is a point that it's pretty easy for women who care about personality to find someone with personality AND a reasonable income. I'm not saying you're 100% off base.

 

But income is just one thing on the list. It's not like there are two guys with exactly the same characteristics only differing in income. We're looking for a good match for us - there are so many characteristics more important than income, and then more equally important.

[MomsSpaghetti]

They're going to be very disappointed to work their asses off to finally get to the job they want and then realize that they are still completely undesirable

 

I never said that making good money will automatically guarantee you hot women. Making great money will, no matter how repulsive you look.

[hppr]

Btw: it takes money to "look hot". The nails, the gym membership, the hair, etc

 

Somewhat. Clothing, jewelry, very expensive. Taking care of yourself though is more about effort. As for the guy who started this thread he's just talking about gold diggers and I don't know why any guy would want that unless he just didn't give a damn anymore and wanted good looking company no matter the price.

[Revolver]

Here's the thing tho... If I'm a hot young woman and I can date wealthy guys(which I can) why wouldn't I? You can't blame a girl for doing that anymore then you can blame The wealthy guy for dating hot women

[Lani]

I can't be bothered reading all of this, because some of the responses are ridiculous, but...

 

Women with half a brain and heart will date whoever they like.

Massive amounts of money or not. Sure, most of us want to be comfortable, and know that our combined efforts will help us achieve that, but that doesn't make us selfish or needy.

I'd much prefer someone who loves me and will look after me personally, rather than someone with masses of money who will try and buy my love.

 

If women are superficial enough to only want you if you have a large salary then there is a chance they don't love you. And you guys need to make the decision on whether that will be enough.