dbs Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 okay here's my story, since i started school this year ive had a crush on this girl in one of my classes and I really enjoy her company, shes always smiling and laughing when shes talking to me, we have great conversation theres never a boring time between the two of us now my dilemma is that i want to ask her for her phone number but for some reason im nervous, i feel like i might scare her away but it seems like the longer i wait the harder it gets (by the way ive never asked a girl for there number theyve always just gave it to me) it seems that when i really like a girl Its so hard to not get nervous around her, i also want to ask her to go to a party with me but i dont know if its to early for me to do that i dont want to scare her away, are these all mind games in playing on myself or is this stuff i should really be worried about. Link to post Share on other sites
DazednConfused Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 Hi dbs, I promise you are gonna miss every single shot that you don't take. can't win if ya don't play. try something non - invasive..... Saturday afternoon coffee perhaps.... Ya know what, girls are not as mysterious creaures as we make them out to be.... they like to be talked with, interested, they like to do fun things, and they even burp and fart like we do. Don't be shy, go for it! Link to post Share on other sites
Stellar Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 when you say you get along, i assume that everything feels normal and comfortable, just like any other friendship would. next time you see her you could always throw the "i-hope-you-dont-think-im-being-cheeky"...but do you wanna rock on up the party with me? OR "I'm going to the party. You're more than welcome to be my beer wench" (well, maybe not!) the cheekly line worked wonders on my because it was casual...and i was hooked at the word 'cheeky'. mmmm....i love a bit of cheekiness in a guy. if she agrees, then get her number so you can arrange for a time to meet or if she needs a ride to the party. the worst that can happen is she'll say no, but you'll have yourself a rockin good time anyway! Good luck (it's really not that hard, especially if you've already established a solid ground). Link to post Share on other sites
Gravity Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 Try to find out if she has a boyfriend first (covertly )...........if she doesnt the go for it................if she does dont say anything and save your friendship Link to post Share on other sites
Author dbs Posted October 1, 2004 Author Share Posted October 1, 2004 Originally posted by Gravity Try to find out if she has a boyfriend first (covertly )...........if she doesnt the go for it................if she does dont say anything and save your friendship i know i sound like a complete dumbass but how do i to that "covertly" . I mean isnt she gonna catch on that im actually asking her if shes available? She told me that she was going to the fair at a local park and I told her that I might go, if i see her ill try and follow your advice, I also like to thank all you guys for your adivice its very much apreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Gravity Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 It is hard (at least in find) but try to find out little snippets of her social life, who are her friends where does she go (and no dont stalk her ) just try not to be too obvious (which i know is easier said than done) but try some recon and see what info you get. Good luck mate Link to post Share on other sites
Author dbs Posted October 2, 2004 Author Share Posted October 2, 2004 Originally posted by Gravity It is hard (at least in find) but try to find out little snippets of her social life, who are her friends where does she go (and no dont stalk her ) just try not to be too obvious (which i know is easier said than done) but try some recon and see what info you get. Good luck mate LOL this is starting to sound like a military operation. Link to post Share on other sites
Shy1109 Posted October 11, 2004 Share Posted October 11, 2004 Maybe she likes you too, but is also to scared to say so....... Nothing ventured, nothing gained..... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 I would say " Hey I was wondering if you would like to go hang out and have a burger . If you think thats kewl then can I have your number so I can call you later ? " Its NOT as hard as you think ! If she is smiling and likes hangin out with you and seems to light up in your presence that SHE IS WAITING FOR YOU to make the next move dude Dont blow it ! Get the nerve. What is the WORSE thing she can say but NO ...IN that case you just say Okay kewl...maybe another time and dont mention it again cause she is prolly not interested ..If she is then You have half the battle won !! Good Luck Studly lol Link to post Share on other sites
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