Shutting down, everytime i see her with another guy...

[SierraMist]

PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!

 

Theres this girl, we met each other through friends in a party. We got to know each other better and before you know it i started liking her. We started to hang out alot maybe like every other day. We both like each other but we dont really want to get into a relationship bcoz i just got out of a bad one and she just got out of one also. We've made out before and even had dry sex (she got an orgasm). My Problem is, everytime i see her talking to another guy, I SHUT DOWN! like i know i dont have the right to...but i end up doing it. We're not going out and so i have no right to shut down everytime she talks to another guy. I totally pull myself away from and end up ignoring her!....it really makes me mad that i do that! Can anyone help me?? WHY DO I SHUT DOWN??????? AND HOW CAN I PREVENT THIS?? please help me.

 

Being 17 and living in california is hard enuff

[Mary3]

What does * Shut Down * Mean ? Do you ignore her while she is talking to the other guy ?

That means you might be jealous of the other person.

 

What is a * Dry Orgasm * ? What do you mean by that one ?

[SierraMist]

by shut down i mean, i get jealous...i start to ignore her and just totally get angry at myself for even feeling this way.

 

Dry orgasm?? i just said we had dry sex and she got an orgasm from that...