Afraid to post this, but here goes..

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The thing is..you'll never ever know. You don't live with them. Even if you know the wife, you don't know what they're like when they're alone together. They could be sleeping in each other's arms ever night. And as LadyGrey says, he is a known liar. He's good at it. So you can't ever really trust a cheating married man no matter what side of things you're on. There will always be a cloud of suspicion surrounding him.

 

From what you are saying, it would make me a known liar and a good one too.. Because I was a cheating married woman. But, I'm not a good pathological liar. I didn't lie to my H and go on secret trips with my xOMM. My xOMM didn't lie to his wife and spend hours on the phone with me. In fact, we didn't even share our numbers. I guess you could say that we were good at "hiding" and being careful, but we weren't lying through our teeth with everything we said and did. You are right though, I'll never know because I can't read his mind, but I'm choosing to believe at the moment that I meant something to him, just like he did/does to me.

[ThatJustHappened]

From what you are saying, it would make me a known liar and a good one too.. Because I was a cheating married woman. But, I'm not a good pathological liar. I didn't lie to my H and go on secret trips with my xOMM. My xOMM didn't lie to his wife and spend hours on the phone with me. In fact, we didn't even share our numbers. I guess you could say that we were good at "hiding" and being careful, but we weren't lying through our teeth with everything we said and did. You are right though, I'll never know because I can't read his mind, but I'm choosing to believe at the moment that I meant something to him, just like he did/does to me.

 

Sorry hon, but you are a liar. You may not have spoken your lies out loud but you did deceive your husband. That's a lie of omission. Hiding = lying. You were a liar. It seems like you're trying to change your ways now though, and I have to respect that.