Mount Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 That is crazy idea. Again, that is common sense - you can not let someone love you by your will. Your MM does not divorce his wife because he does not want to, he is not into you, he does not love you. Let him go, and you move on. Simple. is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ?? She knows clearly that he doesnt love her anymore. They have a 1 years old baby. I cant message her and tell her everything because he will be angry with me. HE wants to end it with good terms. I am posting it not to hear people opposing to me , i hope for some practical advices to make his wife divorce him or hate him. ( i can log in her facebook acc and i have her phone no ) THANKS!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 I think the answer to this situation is pretty straightforward...stop feeding her. If she's not fed, she starves, and leaves. 8 Link to post Share on other sites
Athens Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 No, and the fact they have a one year old means they are still an intimate couple. The only thing you can do is move on and quickly, he wants to be with her, not you. The sooner you realize this, the better off you will be. I am betting you are better than what you are settling for. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Go online and print out some do-it-yourself divorce papers. Fill them out with all their information (should be easy, since you have all her info). Visit their home and ask them to sign them. That's the best I've got. Good luck! 8 Link to post Share on other sites
Mount Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 LOL....That was my MM did exactly two days ago (fill in all the information as the Divorce agreement draft), but not from online, from a few lawyer he was seeking the information and quotation to firm one to use later on. He even sent me the draft for my preview. Go online and print out some do-it-yourself divorce papers. Fill them out with all their information (should be easy, since you have all her info). Visit their home and ask them to sign them. That's the best I've got. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Again? *sigh*. Seriousgirl, you're living in a fantasy world. That marriage ain't going anywhere... And even if it was, he wouldn't be going to her after it ends. Link to post Share on other sites
georgia girl Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Seriousgirl, Short answer: No. Longer answer: You cannot control the actions of others. Ever. You can only control your response. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Do Not Feed The T***L. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Do Not Feed The T***L. But I'm BORED and I'm still at work in the world's most epic meeting... 5 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ?? She knows clearly that he doesnt love her anymore. They have a 1 years old baby. I cant message her and tell her everything because he will be angry with me. HE wants to end it with good terms. I am posting it not to hear people opposing to me , i hope for some practical advices to make his wife divorce him or hate him. ( i can log in her facebook acc and i have her phone no ) THANKS!! SG, this is really unhealthy and wrong. If you don't stop this creepy behaviour (logging into her facebook account, don't even wanna know how you got in and figured out her password) one day you could find yourself in court, fighting a restraining order or possibly worse, end up with a harassment suit against you, invasion of privacy. Don't do ANYTHING. If he wants to divorce he will. If you mess around in their marriage and interfer, he WILL hate you. Link to post Share on other sites
Mount Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 I second that, WWI is right. I think at this point it is impossible to ask SG to drop the idea right away, but she can think - just pls in her brain, don't do anything stupid. SG, this is really unhealthy and wrong. If you don't stop this creepy behaviour (logging into her facebook account, don't even wanna know how you got in and figured out her password) one day you could find yourself in court, fighting a restraining order or possibly worse, end up with a harassment suit against you, invasion of privacy. Don't do ANYTHING. If he wants to divorce he will. If you mess around in their marriage and interfer, he WILL hate you. Link to post Share on other sites
Robert Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Closed as the thread starter has not posted back on thread, if the thread starter wished to have the thread re-opened then alert on this post and we will do so. Thanks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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