toc200 Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Jot notes: -Broke up sort of mutually in mid Feb -First GF, (2.5 years together, lived together, tonnes of travel etc) -Pretty good fight once a month on average. -Both went to our respective hometowns across the country about a month ago -Kept light contact post BU until about 2.5 weeks ago So, here I am 2.5 weeks NC. It is kind of weird as we last texted back and forth on a monday and it concluded with neither of us saying we should stop texting each other. In fact ever since we have gone to our hometowns she had been texting me regularly every Friday & Saturday night. Maybe she was out with friends and lonely, don't know. The last saturday that we talked, she asked me to call her, said she missed me, was looking at our photos earlier that day and to come to her town. The only contact we have had is her "liking" nearly every photo I post to my instagram account. That has always continued. Anyways, like a fool, I actually enjoyed getting these messages. At least I know she still thinks of me. But where I am confused is how all of a sudden with neither of us saying so, she goes off the grid. I refuse to start a new conversation with her as it almost seems like a game. Who will crack first? I haven't looked at her Facebook account as I don't see the point; maybe she has a new BF, a new distraction? I know I shouldn't care but what do you think it could be? I need some encouragement to stay strong; I feel like an idiot writing this letter. Will there ever be a time where we should contact one another? Is she just waiting for me to send a "hello" that she can ignore and hurt me with? I still don't feel ready to try to start something with another girl. This scares me because I do not want to end up as one of those people who never move on. you'd think 3 months would be enough; apparently for her it has. Who knows whats she's thinking. A penny for your thoughts.. Link to post Share on other sites
Ale khun Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 (edited) Once somebody told me that The power of the relationship lies with whoever cares less so maybe she just doesn't care or maybe she is waiting for you to contact her , but why do you want to keep in touch with her ?? Maybe what u miss most it's the constant reassurance that she thinks of you and her texting the problem is that like many of us we get stuck in the past and can't let go and we linger to the memories and we get confused , while we are thinking on them they are living happy without us go NC maybe 3 months is enough time for her to have a RL , or somebody but that doesn't mean that u are ready for it , take your time and don't play her game Edited May 23, 2013 by Ale khun Link to post Share on other sites
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