magyarlany79 Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks know. I met him online and we get along great. We have alot in common and our conversations just flow. From what we like to what we want out of life....its all the same. But I am not sure if this is more then a friendship. He tells me that no girl likes him and that when he goes out with his friends and their gf it makes him uncomfortable. I dont know if these comments are a hint that he likes me or he is just confiding in me. We had a conversation on the phone and he told me that he told his friend about me and he suggested to his friend that he and i and his friend and his gf go out to dinner one time. Why would he ask me to go out to dinner with his friend and his friends gf? He also told me that he is very shy so I dont know if he just doenst know how to say that he wants to be in a relationship with me or he just wants a friendship. He told me when I first met him that he wants a relationship soon and a few days ago he said that he doenst care if he isnt in a relationship as long as he has people to do things with. So this brings me the question...am i just someone he is going to do things with cause he is bored? He is 30 and i am 24 and i think this whole thing is kind of silly and if he did like me i feel he should tell me...of course i am very insecure myself and havent given him any indication that i like him...we have went out a few times and each time he has paid for everything and he just gave me a hug...the last time we went out i have him a handshake casue i figured if we are just freinds it doenst matter. He also told me that he thinks i am hot and attractive..which was nice to hear. The last time we went out to dinner I asked him if he wanted me to pay for mine and he said no he said lets just say this is a date.....dont know what that means. Was he just being nice or making a hint? Very confused and any advice would be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
gwennebe Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 hmmm. Sounds like he is a little confused. Maybe he's not sure about the signals he's picking up from you and is trying to play head games to find out. Maybe see how your next "date" goes and if all else fails I would just come out and ask him what his intentions REALLY are. Link to post Share on other sites
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