Blackmanx Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 THINGS every Man considering marriage should know. Do you trust this woman ? Can you get along ? Are your finances alright ? Are you compatible emotionally and mentally ? Are you compatible sexually ? Does she care about you ? Can you see yourself growing old with her ? Is she supportive of your choices in life ? What is her Sexual History ? What is her health history ? What is her family background ? Does she have a violent temper ? Does she want children ? Is she willing to help you out when you need it or do you (the guy) do everything for the both of you ? Do her parents like you ? (Parents and friends of hers can be a positive or negative influence on you). How long can you go without sexual intimacy ? How long can SHE go without sexual intimacy ? What is YOUR sexual orientation ? What us HER sexual orientation ? What are your racial backgrounds ? Will she sign a prenuptial agreement ? Will she let you have joint custody of children, if any in case of a split ? Is she the cheating type (every man and woman is ) ? Finally, can you really imagine coming home to the same woman every night for the remainder of your life ? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 Better yet, go to a marriage prep class where BOTH people get to discuss the questions like 'do you really want to wake up with this guy 'till the end of your days'? Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 Is she the cheating type (every man and woman is ) ? I don't agree with that. I don't think I'm the cheating type. Women should be asking themselves the same questions you gave to the men. I agree with moimeme, they should go to a marriage prep class together. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 Ha ha, "cheating type" There are those that are considering it, and those who might consider it later.... Link to post Share on other sites
katie79 Posted October 4, 2004 Share Posted October 4, 2004 those questions pertain to both sexes! Also, something has to be there that is special! I have known many couples who have mental, emotional, an sexual compatiablity (amongst the many other things you mentioned) and wound up breaking up. It depends altogether. But I feel most of these things have to be present. by the way... what's a pre-nup agreement exactly?? Link to post Share on other sites
reservoirdog1 Posted October 10, 2004 Share Posted October 10, 2004 Wow... my answers to almost all of those would have suggested marriage. Except the part about her being the "cheating type", if I'd not been too blind to see that. Guess one rotten apple can spoil the entire barrel. Link to post Share on other sites
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