littleandy Posted October 3, 2004 Share Posted October 3, 2004 Well short lil bit about what happend to me , i had been goin out with her for about 1yr 6months , we split up just over 2 weeks ago , she showed no feelings or anything i was trying and hoping to get back with her. I realised i couldnt ever get back with her i was txtin her for a bit after we split up , just the odd txt she was asking about my fish tank which i had let her have ( when we was together ) . Anyway i found out a few days after we had spilt up she had met some1 else ( i found this out about a week after we split up ) so obviously i was really hurt .I told her i wouldnt txt her again. I didnt txt her i havent for about a week , then i got up 2day an ihave a txt off her. She was askin me how i was ? what ive been up2 and am i still going 2 hers to get my fishtank? So i replied , I dont want the tank, if u want 2 get rid of it that bad i will ask my bro if he can collect it ? I got a reply saying, No i dont want to get rid of it quick. This girl is really messing with my head , it seams like for whatever reason she wants me to go to hers ??? Can anyone help me , i dont want the fish tank an i dont want 2 see her ,Ive told her this , so why has she decided to txt me now ??? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted October 3, 2004 Share Posted October 3, 2004 My guess, she started wondering why you've stopped contacting her. Amazingly enough it's odd how sometimes even when someone has broke up the relationship, they still want or need to believe that the person they broke up with still thinks of them or misses them... If you feel the right thing for you in healing and moving past this is to avoid contact with her (and I agree btw that it's the best way) then do nothing. Understand that it isn't about the fish tank or any other item she may have in her possesion that belongs to you... it is about having an excuse to contact you and make sure you're still missing her. Wish you the best Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovehertodeath Posted October 5, 2004 Share Posted October 5, 2004 Tell her to take that fish tank and break it just like she broke your heart. Stay away from her and ignore her txt msg's. If she really loves you SHE knows where to find you. Once you stop giving her your attention she will do everything possible to contact you again. YES.....SHE WILL GO TO YOUR HOUSE! Dont feed her with your attention anymore and you will find out if she really loves you and wants to work things out or not. And for you....go out and meet new girls....because if your girlfriend sees that you can live without her she will start pursuing you. I dont know if thats what you want...you decided. Girls like guys in demand....go out there and do your thing boy! Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted October 5, 2004 Share Posted October 5, 2004 Tell her the fish tank is the least of your worries (if it is, I'm assuming it is). Get on with your life like you've began to do. There are other fish in the tank. Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted October 5, 2004 Share Posted October 5, 2004 She's playing with your head. Don't text her back and don't put more into it than it really is. If you start talking to her, she'll just come back & say 'I just wanted to know about the fish tank' and make you feel like a fool. Keep ignoring her and move on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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