Matmana Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 I fell in love with this girl when I was a senior in high school. She was everything I ever wanted in a girlfriend. She was different and unique and caring. She showed me so many things about the world that I never saw before. I didn't even realize it, but I was soon spending all my time with her. I just couldn't get enough and it felt like we were married. I was so happy and excited that I didn't even want to go away to college. We were going to be apart, but I knew we could make it work. I missed her so much that after one semester and weekends of coming back home, I decided to come back home and stay for good. On that same night I finished being away, she went out with another guy. We tried making it work, but things crumbled. Now I am lost without any friends and anyone to rely on. How do I rebuild my life after my love blinded me from everything? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 Bit by bit. Resume the life you know you had before she was in it. Keep in touch with people. Resume your education. Life has not stopped, simply because of your break-up. And I know you are going through an exceptionally difficult time right now, in your domestic situation (parents' divorce) and I did respond in the other thread. I reiterate here, what I put there: Their divorce is a sad thing - but it's not YOUR problem to deal with, and absolutely not your issue to fix. They're adults. They're your parents, but you don't owe them anything by way of mediation. They have chosen this route. Sad as it may be, it's something they have opted to do. You are still their son. There is nothing that will ever change that. You have enough issues of your on to have to deal with. Take it one day at a time. Do not let your heart/emotions, make decisions your head/logic should be making. Look at each aspect of your life and work on each one to effect a remedy. But your parents divorce, is not one of these 'aspects'. All you can do, is observe from a distance, and let them be. Make every effort to remain neutral, do not take sides, and do not be persuaded by either of them, to take their side. (Unless, of course, there is something distressingly obviously totally wrong about their 'side'.... But even then, it's not your place to criticise or judge.) Just look and accept that as well as being your parents, they are simply 2 individual humans making their own ways through life. Link to post Share on other sites
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