Attempt at a second chance, any input appreciated ?

[totallylost5040]

any update?

[ThatGuy195]

Think its a no go all, i know that she got the letter and read it, her mother told me she said she is glad im doing well, but it doesn't seem like she has any regrets and her mother doesn't think we will get back together. I know its only been a couple of days since the letter, but i honestly don't think she will change her mind in a hurry or at all. It does hurt and regardless of how pure an attempt at a second chance is even if its for closure, it hurts as much as the break up the first time, so just be ready for that. My only advice is that if u ever get a good woman/man in your life, dont ever make them feel that you dont love them and always be a part of the things they believe in, i stopped doing that towards the end of my relationship because i was too worried about my own problems. I wanted to share my life with her and i know for a good while so did she. I dont know what the future holds but all i know is i have to move foward and i cant pretend she will one day come back into my arms. I know not every situation is the same and fighting for what you want may sometimes work, it at least shows you care. I think its better than not fighting at all. However trying too hard will just push them away. Time heals all wounds and i know it sucks and ive never been a believer in destiny or **** happens for a reason. I think we control our own fate and are dealt a fate based on our actions. However if a couple is meant to be together in the long run, its usually out of the dumpee's control. Just do what you think you have to do, thats all we can do. Im not going to lie i want her back but the current me doesnt deserve her, even with the effort i have put in, its not enough and i have a lot of growing up to do. Just move on with your lives and be the best you that you can be, if she is meant to come back maybe one day she will. Going to work on me for the next 6 months and see what life has to offer