jaseva Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 I see my original thread was locked and I appologize to those who gave me great advice for not answering you timely. My W, found my LS registration through my email and saw my posts, so I took a bit of a hiatus for a couple days. Just to clear up a couple details... OW is not local and doesn't know my peers, nor do my circle of fam/friends know her. My wife didn't FB blast it too hard, but simply asked for prayers for our family. Of course that is an invite to ask "what's going on?" and now everyone in my life knows. A few people in my life have found who she is and sent some FB messages, but I think she's being left alone as she should. I still maintain it's me everyone needs to be upset with. The OW only has the three people she confided in to worry about and although NC has been maintained, I'm sure I'm now an after thought. I'm not crying about that, I'm just saying. I appreaciate all the advice given. It's been very helpful and I will be following it. I need to make a decision and it will be made. I think some of you are right to point out that (at least in my sit) it's comforting to know if there will be someone there. I agree that it's a cowardly way to do things and unfair to the ladies involved. I just need to man up. When the dust settles and it's all over, I will provide an update to keep you informed. Until then I wanted to provide a heartfelt thanks for those that took an interest in my story. I wish you all luck in your own situations as well as healing and closure if it applies. Link to post Share on other sites
Praying4Peace Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 Good luck with everything! Link to post Share on other sites
findingnemo Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 I see my original thread was locked and I appologize to those who gave me great advice for not answering you timely. My W, found my LS registration through my email and saw my posts, so I took a bit of a hiatus for a couple days. Just to clear up a couple details... OW is not local and doesn't know my peers, nor do my circle of fam/friends know her. My wife didn't FB blast it too hard, but simply asked for prayers for our family. Of course that is an invite to ask "what's going on?" and now everyone in my life knows. A few people in my life have found who she is and sent some FB messages, but I think she's being left alone as she should. I still maintain it's me everyone needs to be upset with. The OW only has the three people she confided in to worry about and although NC has been maintained, I'm sure I'm now an after thought. I'm not crying about that, I'm just saying. I appreaciate all the advice given. It's been very helpful and I will be following it. I need to make a decision and it will be made. I think some of you are right to point out that (at least in my sit) it's comforting to know if there will be someone there. I agree that it's a cowardly way to do things and unfair to the ladies involved. I just need to man up. When the dust settles and it's all over, I will provide an update to keep you informed. Until then I wanted to provide a heartfelt thanks for those that took an interest in my story. I wish you all luck in your own situations as well as healing and closure if it applies. Good luck, jaseva. Link to post Share on other sites
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