Am I the only who who all my exes hate or does anyone else have this problem?

[BlindRage]

So why did he call her chubby and ugly on The inside, beforehand? And an annoying feminist girl? That wasn't necessary to someone who bothered to answer his thread.

 

 

Have you not read her posts? She is annoying!

[BustedUpInside]

Fixed.

 

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hahahaha! I wish I could edit my memories of things people have said to me so easily. That's awesome!

[lop98]

I developed quality friendships with both the person I've dated the longest and my first love (and heartbreak). Things didn't work out because we transitioned onto different stages in life but friendships developed from there mostly due to the amount of respect that always existed, and because I'm not really interested in anyone unless I see friend potential for starters. Until February, I never experienced a nasty breakup, the kind where both sides say things they regret, begging, humiliation... even then, I don't think my ex "hates" me but a part of me does hate him and it's such a dirty thing to feel, I wish I could just forget about him and pretend he never happened.

[BlindRage]

Fixed.

 

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Talk about delusional.....

 

 

Zammo just ignore that irrelevant troll known as Metal Chick.

Edited June 6, 2013 by BlindRage

[BlindRage]

Not trolling. I think you need to look the definition up.

 

In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as a forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.

 

 

 

See PugMug and Zammo the quoted statement above. This young lady wins the aware for most annoying hands down.

[BustedUpInside]

See PugMug and Zammo the quoted statement above. This young lady wins the aware for most annoying hands down.

 

You're turning into quite the dark horse in that race too though, so now I don't know who to vote for.

[BlindRage]

No. All my posts are on topic. You have comprehension failure.

 

Your annoying skills are brilliant! Keep it up. No wonder you are a single women.

[BlindRage]

And I suppose the blokes are single by choice?

 

:laugh:

 

 

All your ex blokes must be single after you! They are probably traumatized.

 

They avoided a bullet by leaving you

[BlindRage]

And yet! To bring it back on topic, which is why PugMug's exes want nothing to do with him after the break ups - all my exes have chased me down after the relationship has ended. The dumper, and the dumpee. Asking for a friendship, or asking for a second chance.

 

Poor old PugMug, none of his want a bar of him. So at the very least, I must be a hell of a lot less annoying than him.

 

The proof is in the pudding! Delicious, smug pudding. At least I'm not bitter, I don't have a chip on my shoulder, and I don't have to resort to the 15 yr old 'go-to' internet argument "Whaaaah!! You must be fat!!"

 

I use the details he's given me. Zammo complained about being home on a Saturday night alone. Your nickname is BlindRage. You're throwing yourselves a massive bitter party, and in the process, making yourselves thoroughly undateable.

 

There's no one to blame here but yourselves! I'm not home alone on a Saturday night, sooooo... the only single angry annoying people here, are you lot.

 

 

 

Hahahah such a simple person you are.

[BustedUpInside]

Your annoying skills are brilliant! Keep it up. No wonder you are a single women.

 

And I suppose you are here just to let everyone know that you are currently married to the love of your life?

 

I think it is a pretty weak argument to point out that just because someone is single, it is proof of how "annoying" they are.

 

Lots of rude, horrible people find love. I mean you have probably had at least a few relationships already, right?

[BlindRage]

Awww... nothing left in the tank, huh? Not to worry.

 

What is there left to say? I think you have proven to all those who said you are annoying that you are.

 

Congratulations. You are the undefeated champion!

 

 

Want to give me another laugh? Write a long rant about how you are better than everyone else by pointing out things they are sad about. Sure pick on PugMug for having too much heart, pick on Zammo for being alone on a Saturday night. Pathetic little girl that you are

[BustedUpInside]

Want to give me another laugh? Write a long rant about how you are better than everyone else by pointing out things they are sad about. Sure pick on PugMug for having too much heart, pick on Zammo for being alone on a Saturday night. Pathetic little girl that you are

 

You can't honestly think that is what she was doing. From my understanding, Metal Chick was pointing out, with ironic satire, that it is unfair for the OP to respond to criticism with insults. That is a perfectly acceptable response to his post to suggest that he may be the root cause of his own issues and it is ok to defend women against untrue sexist allegations.

 

Also, when the op and others insulted Metal Chick and she responded in kind, why is she the one who is put on blast? Shouldn't it be everybody or nobody?

[BlindRage]

PugMug asked the question. I answered it. You can't cry just because it wasn't the answer he (or you) wanted to hear.

 

I'm doing everyone a disservice if I tell them what they want to hear. He asked why his exes don't like him. His behaviour on here is very telling as to why. He then resorted to fat jibes, because I disagreed with him.

 

And somehow... I'm the a--hole? What should I have done? Held his hand and said he was awesome? That's what his mother is for.

 

 

Everyone that tells you something you don't want to hear is 'crying'.

 

Reading the tread it is apparent that you started the conflict first. And now you are adding low blows to Zammo as well. And Zammo made a FANTASTIC point as to why PugMug did that 'jibe' which was 'provocation'. It actually seemed that PugMug was biting his tounge the whole way through until he couldn't any longer. To put it simply he was provoked. Yes metal chick the things you said before that fat jibe were rude and uncalled for.

 

All the fine points do infact make you an a--hole in my opinion. Don't like what I said? What would you like me to do hold your hand and tell you that you're awesome! That's your mothers job.

Edited June 6, 2013 by BlindRage

[BustedUpInside]

Everyone that tells you something you don't want to hear is 'crying'.

 

 

All the fine points do infact make you an a--hole in my opinion. Don't like what I said? What would you like me to do hold your hand and tell you that you're awesome! That's your mothers job.

 

How come when you stick up for other posters, you are in the right, but when Metal Chick sticks up for women in general she is a jerk?

 

I just don't think it is fair of you to act like the OP was "provoked" when he was already making insulting comments before that. Insulting to women, which Metal Chick and a number of other posters happen to be.

[BlindRage]

How come when you stick up for other posters, you are in the right, but when Metal Chick sticks up for women in general she is a jerk?

 

I just don't think it is fair of you to act like the OP was "provoked" when he was already making insulting comments before that. Insulting to women, which Metal Chick and a number of other posters happen to be.

 

Would you mind posting exactly why think PugMug was being offensive?

[BustedUpInside]

AH!!! Yea. Thats how it is. Girls apparently like to be challenged in all aspects of their lives. Or they might get bored with you and start looking for a bad boy to challenge them.

 

Don't get too comfortable around them because it backlashes on you. Then you get the "I need some space" talk

 

I realize that this was Pug Mug's opinion, but I find it insulting to be lumped into a general category where someone acts like an entire gender feels this way. It makes me seem immature or silly, and I think that is insulting.

 

I am not suggesting that it is appropriate to call names in a thread, but I don't think that that excuse of provocation justifies anybody and if you are going to call out one side for supposed bad behavior then you have to call out both sides.

[BlindRage]

No. People who lack self-awareness to acknowledge that sometimes, we ourselves are the problem in our screwed-up relationships (something I have freely admitted to be responsible for in my own past), are crying.

 

Imitationis the sincerest form of flattery. I say that because you haven't anything original to say, you just parrot back my own words.

 

Where is it appropriate to call someone fat just because they're provoked? I would expect a 5 year old to do that, but not a grown man.

 

More evidence of why his exes should stay away...

 

 

Bustedupinside.

 

Read this quote. Leave the whole women/men aside and just read it. What do you really think about it? Leaving the whole women siding up with women and men with men would you not find the OP of it annoying. Just by reading that.

 

And to you metal chick. You said I was crying but you know none of my relationships and they weren't in question. How was that argument used for me then? Make up your mind on what it means to be virtually crying.

Edited June 6, 2013 by BlindRage

[BustedUpInside]

Bustedupinside.

 

Read this quote. Leave the whole women/men aside and just read it. What do you really think about it? Leaving the whole women siding up with women and men with men would you not find the OP of it annoying. Just by reading that.

 

Me? Not really. However, I am totally ok with you thinking that Metal Chick is annoying. If you don't like what she is posting and you want to stick up for other posters that is absolutely your prerogative. My point is that it is not fair to call her out as annoying for the same behavior that the people that you are sticking up for are doing.

 

I liked when this thread was about trying to help Pug Mug figure out where he went wrong in previous relationships so that he would be able to either knowingly do the behavior, or to avoid it if he felt that it was a hindrance in his relationships.

 

But, in my opinion, as soon as that was suggested it turned into a thread where several men seemed to be blaming all women for playing games or being emotionally manipulative. Then, when people came to the defense, they were criticized for being annoying feminists, or fat and bitter, or the instrument of their own loneliness. I just really didn't like that so I made a case for my frustration.

[BlindRage]

Yesh, BustedUp, tell us, is it annoying??

 

:bunny:

 

Why is it annoying, BlindRage? You seem fixated on me. Tell me, what it is that boils your blood?

 

I was crying and now I am fixation. That makes no sense at all. Do you suffer from some sort of mental illness?

[BlindRage]

Me? Not really. However, I am totally ok with you thinking that Metal Chick is annoying. If you don't like what she is posting and you want to stick up for other posters that is absolutely your prerogative. My point is that it is not fair to call her out as annoying for the same behavior that the people that you are sticking up for are doing.

 

I liked when this thread was about trying to help Pug Mug figure out where he went wrong in previous relationships so that he would be able to either knowingly do the behavior, or to avoid it if he felt that it was a hindrance in his relationships.

 

But, in my opinion, as soon as that was suggested it turned into a thread where several men seemed to be blaming all women for playing games or being emotionally manipulative. Then, when people came to the defense, they were criticized for being annoying feminists, or fat and bitter, or the instrument of their own loneliness. I just really didn't like that so I made a case for my frustration.

 

 

The thread was going gret that is very true. Obviously people did voice different opinions that are contraversal. That is not questionable. It should have been left at that, but read before that whole generalization started. PugMug seemed decent. At least that's what it seemed like to me. He is heartbroken and came and swallowed his pride seeking help. Read his responses to all the people that gave him advice they are very nice. Until metal chick that is. Read her responses (leaving out the whole men/women) and it can be seen that he was provoked. That is most definitely why I agree with what Zammo said in that regard.

[BustedUpInside]

The thread was going gret that is very true. Obviously people did voice different opinions that are contraversal. That is not questionable. It should have been left at that, but read before that whole generalization started. PugMug seemed decent. At least that's what it seemed like to me. He is heartbroken and came and swallowed his pride seeking help. Read his responses to all the people that gave him advice they are very nice. Until metal chick that is. Read her responses (leaving out the whole men/women) and it can be seen that he was provoked. That is most definitely why I agree with what Zammo said in that regard.

 

I thought he seemed nice too, so I was surprised when he started with the insults. I was going to suggest that it might be the root of the problem he described in his thread, but I was afraid that he might say something mean to me.

 

I don't want people, myself included, to feel afraid to voice their opinions, even if they are controversial, and then have others be afraid to stick up for them without being insulted all over the place.

 

You may not like Metal Chick, but you can't deny that she speaks her mind and lets it be known that she is not willing to be insulted in any capacity just for voicing her dissenting opinion.

 

I don't agree with your opinion of her, but as I said before, you are more than welcome to voice it and she is more than welcome to reply to the critique.

[BlindRage]

No. I don't see what is so difficult to understand about my writing, but then again, not everyone is blessed with my intelligence.

 

You called me annoying pretty much straight out of the blocks. I'm curious as to why?

 

 

Now my intelligence is in question.

 

Is it not obvious how annoying you are from your post. If you can't see it you must be even more delusional than I first anticipated. To all the post I've ever read since 2010 on LS I have never read post from someone as annoying as you.

[BlindRage]

I thought he seemed nice too, so I was surprised when he started with the insults. I was going to suggest that it might be the root of the problem he described in his thread, but I was afraid that he might say something mean to me.

 

I don't want people, myself included, to feel afraid to voice their opinions, even if they are controversial, and then have others be afraid to stick up for them without being insulted all over the place.

 

You may not like Metal Chick, but you can't deny that she speaks her mind and lets it be known that she is not willing to be insulted in any capacity just for voicing her dissenting opinion.

 

I don't agree with your opinion of her, but as I said before, you are more than welcome to voice it and she is more than welcome to reply to the critique.

 

 

 

It seemed that anyone who voiced their opinions and metal chick didnt like them she offended them at a personal level. Not just superficial either. She hit them where it hurts the most which is within. They just spoke up against her as well. It didnt seem as they were attacking her, seemed more as if she threw the first punch, they are more than welcomed to block and even throw one back.

[BlindRage]

I thought he seemed nice too, so I was surprised when he started with the insults. I was going to suggest that it might be the root of the problem he described in his thread, but I was afraid that he might say something mean to me.

 

I don't want people, myself included, to feel afraid to voice their opinions, even if they are controversial, and then have others be afraid to stick up for them without being insulted all over the place.

 

You may not like Metal Chick, but you can't deny that she speaks her mind and lets it be known that she is not willing to be insulted in any capacity just for voicing her dissenting opinion.

 

I don't agree with your opinion of her, but as I said before, you are more than welcome to voice it and she is more than welcome to reply to the critique.

 

 

You seem to have an open mind so that is great. Best of wishes to you BustedUpInside

 

PugMug and Zammo you guys keep your heads up. You two seem like great guys as well with a lot to offer and if you haven't already, you will find great girls that will appreciate it. Things do happen for a reason. All the bad stuff even. Once you guys find that right one you will appreciate her more. Having had experiences with so many bad ones will make that special one even more amazing and precious.

Edited June 6, 2013 by BlindRage

[Zammo25]

It started to go wrong when Metal Chick posted this to PugMug " Have ever wondered that the common denominator in your relationships is you? ". He reacted to it, as most people would and it went pear shaped from then so we can all see who started it. No point in rewriting the facts.