who to pay for flights?

[kiwildr]

You say you didn't want to feel selfish ,well then check the dates with him and book your own flights for once it's simple. Action speak far louder than words so surprise him and do it then. Hope you have done it .

 

I personally like to feel independent and not owe or feel controlled by someone so I am happy to buy my own flights or meet half way on things. This is modern times I think things have changed from the dark ages.

 

I dislike how people who may have worked hard or inherited money people think oh well they can pay they have more than me, now that to me is cheap. It's a two way street so a little giving back does wonders.

Edited May 30, 2013 by kiwildr

[FitChick]

I personally like to feel independent and not owe or feel controlled by someone so I am happy to buy my own flights.

 

I am independent so don't feel controlled when someone else pays. I feel grateful.

[kiwildr]

Gratitude is a great thing FitChick - maybe the important thing here is balance between giving and taking...and you clearly give back BTW my comments were not directed at you..

Edited May 31, 2013 by kiwildr