irishgirl22 Posted October 4, 2004 Share Posted October 4, 2004 I have been talking to this man for a little over a month now. We both live in the Southwest but are from the Midwest and share the same views on almost everything. Everytime we talk (2 to 3 times a week), it is never for less than 4 hours on the phone. We email too. My problem is this. He has a girlfriend - or so he says- in another state - 1500 miles away that he has seen a couple of times in the last 3 years. Also, he says he doesn't want to give me the wrong idea when we talk. He is a good friend though and I feel we could very well be soulmates. I told him that I cannot talk to him on the phone for hours and not develop feelings for him and he says that he knows what I mean. He also says that he wouldn't be talking to me if he didn't think we clicked. He says he needs a good Irish girl with fire inside her (this is me an he knows it) and everything in our phone coversations say he likes me but he says - still - to not get the wrong idea . I am terribly confused! i don't want to lose his friendship but my feelings for him are hard to ignore. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted October 5, 2004 Share Posted October 5, 2004 Well the best thing I can think of here, is when someone has told you they are with someone else... they aren't wanting to give you the "wrong idea" meaning that a relationship is going to develop... believe them. If talking to this guy is leading to deeper feelings, and he is already in a relationship (doesn't matter if she lives there or not) then distance yourself A LOT from him... cut back on the emails, cut back on the phone calls and continue to look for someone who is available. Link to post Share on other sites
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