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Do the cheater deserve to be happy?


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Do I deserve to be happy? I know that I made many mistakes but I'm getting to the point where I know that I deserve to be with someone who really loves me.

 

I know that I have a lot of earthy consequences for my sins, but I'm human(And we do make mistakes) and I want to be in love again.

 

Any thoughts?

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2ndConfusedfemale

I think that cheaters deserve to be happy once they take/accept responsibility for the misery that they've caused others. Now, whether you deserve to be happy with the person you cheated on is up to THAT person. Just be sure that when you find someone new you are good to them, and IF you want to stray again, you'd just be upfront with your feelings instead of deceiving them again. Now, if you intentionally hurt another person, or willingly deceive them, then you deserve whatever consequence you get from those actions.

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If you are happy about the hurt you caused - no. Eventually you will find IT and hopefully not cheat - but until you stop the cheating I don't know if you will ever be happy. Hurting someone in that way has to do something to you and if you continue - no you don't deserve happiness.

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