somedude81 Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Oh my God. Thanks for the advice guys. 22 Link to post Share on other sites
kiss_andmakeup Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Well........ ......... ...let's hear it!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 I'm guessing this theme music is appropriate 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted May 31, 2013 Author Share Posted May 31, 2013 It couldn't have gone any better. Took the risk and it paid off. 21 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted May 31, 2013 Author Share Posted May 31, 2013 I'm guessing this theme music is appropriate I actually prefer FFVI. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) It couldn't have gone any better. Took the risk and it paid off. This is why it's better to take risks. You get experiences when you do so . (EDIT: Within reason of course!! Don't take too many risks, but you have to take some to get anywhere ) I'm extremely happy that you had a good night tonight! Edited May 31, 2013 by ThaWholigan 8 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted May 31, 2013 Author Share Posted May 31, 2013 This is why it's better to take risks. You get experiences when you do so . (EDIT: Within reason of course!! Don't take too many risks, but you have to take some to get anywhere ) I'm extremely happy that you had a good night tonight! Yeah it was within reason. When I walked her to her car she didn't give me any signals that she wanted me to kiss her (that I at least noticed) but the whole date she was super comfortable with me and I touched her a lot, put my around her shoulder several times, so I had a good enough idea that she would be fine with a kiss. And now I can hardly believe that today actually happened. 18 Link to post Share on other sites
CptSaveAho Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 was there tongue involved? Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Yeah it was within reason. When I walked her to her car she didn't give me any signals that she wanted me to kiss her (that I at least noticed) but the whole date she was super comfortable with me and I touched her a lot, put my around her shoulder several times, so I had a good enough idea that she would be fine with a kiss. And now I can hardly believe that today actually happened. Believe it, my friend . Take heart in the fact that you were proactive - and the fact that you both enjoyed each other's presence. Now you have to believe that there will be many more moments like today. Whether it's (hopefully) from this girl or another. But yeah, I have to reiterate that I'm extremely happy for you and it's been a long time coming . 8 Link to post Share on other sites
kiss_andmakeup Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 That's awesome; congrats!!! 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) Hopefully this thread is inspiration for the struggling fellas on here. No matter what ends up happening between you and this girl Somedude, you took initiative and saw what happens when you do so. Nice work! Let's review... --You asked for her contact info. --You kept in contact via FB (I'm assuming) the two months between your last class and now. --You asked her out. --You asked her out again. --You pushed through your fears, made a move, and kissed her. Even if the unthinkable happens and she says "let's just be friends" you should feel very proud of yourself man. No matter how long your story with this particular girl lasts, you now have an idea of what is possible when you take initiative. Edited May 31, 2013 by Imajerk17 10 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted May 31, 2013 Author Share Posted May 31, 2013 was there tongue involved? LOL no. But there might have been if I stayed longer. I walked her to her car, she takes her keys out of her purse, and drops her chapstick. She opens the door, puts in her purse, grabs the chapstick, puts that in her car and I'm just standing there waiting. All this time she's saying thank you for today and stuff like that. Finally, I'm given the chance to hug her, nice real hug, since my head is right there I kiss her on the cheek without even thinking, still in my arms she pulls back enough to look at me, and I just know to go for a real kiss. Still in my arms she said something that she knew I was going to do it. We have one or two more quick kisses and then we said bye. I'm sure that if I stayed longer more would have happened, but I'm happy that it stopped when it did. Frankly, I wasn't ready for it to go beyond. 12 Link to post Share on other sites
kiss_andmakeup Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 LOL no. But there might have been if I stayed longer. I walked her to her car, she takes her keys out of her purse, and drops her chapstick. She opens the door, puts in her purse, grabs the chapstick, puts that in her car and I'm just standing there waiting. All this time she's saying thank you for today and stuff like that. Finally, I'm given the chance to hug her, nice real hug, since my head is right there I kiss her on the cheek without even thinking, still in my arms she pulls back enough to look at me, and I just know to go for a real kiss. Still in my arms she said something that she knew I was going to do it. We have one or two more quick kisses and then we said bye. I'm sure that if I stayed longer more would have happened, but I'm happy that it stopped when it did. Frankly, I wasn't ready for it to go beyond. I'm so incredibly happy reading this story!! Not because I thought it would never happen, but because I knew that eventually it would happen and so to hear it is gratifying. Good job, somedude! You've earned this! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Congratulations my friend! And remember, no matter what happens from here on out with her, it's still a win! I'm very interested to see what this victory does to your psyche actually going forward. Or maybe you'll just disappear from LS. But revel in the victory today. You have made one pessimistic poster see the world a little brighter today. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 This thread made my day. I am thrilled for you somedude, you deserve some happiness after all the cr ap you went through. But don't forget to study calculus 9 Link to post Share on other sites
happykat Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 I logged on just to see what happened on date 2... yahoo!! When is date 3 so I can mark my calendar lol 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 How cool! happy for you SD 2 Link to post Share on other sites
DannyMason Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Congrats! I'm super happy for you. Now get her into bed! Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 This thread totally put a smile on my face. Super happy for you, dude. For date 3, just don't park in a fire lane. 8 Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Great news, SD. Now remember, each day is nothing more than a new opportunity to f*ck it up. So don't f*ck it up. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Great news, SD. Now remember, each day is nothing more than a new opportunity to f*ck it up. So don't f*ck it up. Aren't you a ray of sunshine 4 Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Aren't you a ray of sunshine It's one of my more endearing qualities. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 A giant leap for Dudekind! 9 Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 Woohoo! Nicely done. This calls for bunnies! :bunny: :bunny: :bunny: :bunny: :bunny: :bunny: 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 This has made my night better! I always knew you were enough for decent girls to want to date you. It is just putting yourself out there to the right girl! I am really happy for you! I am looking forward to hearing about your other dates. I know it seems like it would be easy to eff it up.. sort of like the guys in the movies who go for a girl that they think is too good for them, only to act like blabbering idiots.... Really, though; as long as you just be yourself, and you're kind and respectful (yet without waiting too long for sex, so she does not think your not interested) then you cannot really stuff up; you either will or will not be the right dude for her! Have fun! It is supposed to be fun, so don't put too much pressure on yaself' 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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