Furious Posted May 31, 2013 Share Posted May 31, 2013 I do own 100% of my actions. I did what I did and my responsibility was to myself and the people I knew. Did I want them to meet him? Did I want him in my home? Did I want to meet his family when offered? Did I want to compromise my morals? Did I love him enough to get involved? Do I want the inevitable heartbreak? He had a whole other set of issues that were wrapped around his decision to have an A. I blamed my xH and not his OW when he cheated so why on earth would I expect to be blamed for dMMs actions? I accept 100% of my actions but it's pretty obvious what I feel I have responsibility for doesn't agree with what others think I should feel responsibility for. You are a perfect example of a betrayed spouse who then became another woman. I don't buy that every betrayed spouse is a saint. You couldn't forgive being cheated on , but you were ok with being an accessory to cheating. You refuse to own your own part on deception because in the end you cannot tolerate being cheated on but then excuse yourself from being an OW. Cheat with me but not on me, is a poor excuse. I know you cringe from what I'm saying, but the truth hurts and some people don't want to face their own hypocrisy. Yes,the WS chooses to cheat, but it takes someone who is willing to cheat with them that closes the deal. You own that part and choose to be a part of that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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