Immediate help with my ex-girlfriend, Cant stop thinking about her

[DJREMIX]

Well, im here once again looking 4 answers!! well, i want to know for those people on here that have had a break up with their ex-girlfriends, and i mean you really loved her with all of ur heart, but now she is with some other guy, do u think about waiting 4 her, is she the "One", how do u know that u know!! i mean i remember reading some guys story on here, and he said that he waited a whole year, when he got back with his ex-girlfriend, is that possible? what do u do in that whole time when u are apart from her? well, i want to why my ex-girlfriend cheated on me? its been almost eight months since we broke up. I was everything to her, im very sweet, caring, romantic, funny kinda guy, who never treated her bad, was always there 4 her, and what does she do, i find her with some other guy in her bed, and when i saw that i was destroyed!! she tried to explain herself to me but honestly i didnt care because seeing another guy in her bed instead of me, well, i mean u dont want to hear from her right!! i was so tore up!! how can she do this to me!! i mean everything was almost perfect, her whole family luved me, they trusted me, and i mean i luved her family! i was going to propose to her, and she didnt know that! it was going to be a surprise!! well, now, i mean my homie still tells me that she is with that guy still, supposebly in love with him, i mean damn, how can u move on so fast and forget about me!! or do u think she hasnt forgotten me? ive heard this quote that says "The nice guys are never forgotten". So, now its eight months later, im here handling my business, going to school and going to work, but 4 some reason she comes back to my mind, i mean there isnt a day that goes by that i start thinking about her, all that we went through!! i mean we hardly talk now, i dont know why!! do u think she has feels towards me still even though she is with some other guy? well, i just need help figuring out if i should go back with her if we ever hook up again, because i miss her so much, and i want to be with her forever, so what do i do in the mean time? wait 4 her? or what? well, hopefully ill hear ur comments

[Emily55555443]

The thing in this situation that you are seeming to forget is that you like her so much more than she likes you. You may of been in love with her, but if she really loved u the same there would be no way in hell she would cheat on you. Another thing, people who cheat will cheat again. I've had a boyfriend who cheated on me and so we broke up and he said he would never do it and he learned his lesson. and i know this is wrong and invasion of privacy but i have his password of his emial (he gave it to me when we were together) I checked it this one time and there was 2 emails from girls who were mad at him because he cheated on them too. You shouldn'y be with someone if they make you feel so upset. Your just going to have to face the facts and move on. Gotta go third period is over

[Ilovehertodeath]

Ok ok I know where you are coming from...been there done that. What you have to do is ask yourself...DO YOU REALLY WANT SOMEONE LIKE THIS?

 

Your response _ *I love her and I can forgive her for what she did* _

 

If you do that you are telling her that its okay if she sleeps with johnny/matt/nick/etc. Just as long she comes home to you. She will be like "Hrmm Thats a great offer." Yeah she might be your girlfriend but in the future while you are at work, WORKING YOUR ASS OF FOR HER and the kids shes out banging the whole block because she knows you will always forgive her because she has the golden pussy and can do whatever she wants without getting into trouble.

 

PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER AND THINK!! THINK MAN THINK!! GO OUT AND FIND BETTER BROADS! I'll tell you this... there are a ton of girls out in this world that would be willing to wait in line FOR YOU! GO OUT AND BE SEEN!!

[Weird]

Agreed...I could never be in a relationship with a chick who cheated on me. They are saying that they dont give a fug about you when they do that. It isn't just some mistake or bad judgement they amade. And even if it was, why would someone want to be with a person who is obviously too stupid to know what they are doing and can't control their impulses?

 

BTW if I do get back with my ex in the future it'll be way more than a year since we broke up.

[metalman]

Well I try to be more optimisitc than others here. Many folks are very pessimistic. Its kind of hard to tell with the cheating thing though. If you get back she may cheat she may not. The best thing for you now is to live your life let her live hers and get out there in the scene again. You may not want to rush into it, but in time once you have your self talks, praying, talks with friends, whoever, the haze will clear and you will be ready to get out there again. THe hurt will leave with time. You will learn fromm it and since you didnt die or kill yourself youll be stronger because of it. I know from experience. My girl just dumped me not too long ago saying that she needed time to get your self together and get back into chruch and devote all her time to her son. She slept with a guy she was just "friends" with a week after we broke up and who was also her best friends ex-boyfriend. She didnt technically cheat on me but it did make me wonder about her in general and if she was screwing around on me during our relationship. Its been about 3 weeks since we broke up and i still care for her and her son, but I know that we wont be back together anytime soon. We do talk but she does all the calling. I dont call her. She has some learning to do as do I. I know good and well shes not the one for me, at least at this point. Hell I went and slept with a girl a week after we broke up myself, so what does that say about ME?? It says go and live your single life now, get all the curiosity out of the way, find out what you need to find out about others. Make friends, have girl friends whatever. Doesnt mean you have to sleep with anyone, but all those experiences will help. IF she doesnt come back then she wasnt for you anywho. I know that my ex and I may never get back together, hey it hurts for a while then you realize it wasnt meant to be. THe one whom you are supposed to be with will make you so much happier anyways. I dont know if you believe in GOD but things happen for a reason. He may have removed her from your life to make room for someone else. Replaced a bad girl, with one whom you dont see yet that may make you the happiest person on earth. Or you may go through a few of these, eventually it works out. Dont hate her, just forgive and move on down the road. I feel you homie. Out

[Weird]

Or God doesn't really want you to be happy with respect to a relationship and you go through your life being jerked around by selfish chicks. The good thing about that is that you can look forward to a nice afterlife where you don't have to deal wiht this crap.