cocorico Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 Mount, I am sorry he disregarded your concerns in changing the timeline, but very pleased for you that he is resolving things well for your R. I really hope things work out well for you. I have found that people, MM included, need to do things n their own time, when they feel ready and it feels right for them. For some OW, that means it happens much more slowly than they would like, while in your case it seems to be somewhat the other way. Either way, IME when people act on decisions they make when they are ready to, they are clearer about what they want to do and why, and less likely to regret what they did or change their minds. So it sounds like your guys on the right path. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Anna-Belle Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 Mount, I am sorry he disregarded your concerns in changing the timeline, but very pleased for you that he is resolving things well for your R. I really hope things work out well for you. I have found that people, MM included, need to do things n their own time, when they feel ready and it feels right for them. For some OW, that means it happens much more slowly than they would like, while in your case it seems to be somewhat the other way. Either way, IME when people act on decisions they make when they are ready to, they are clearer about what they want to do and why, and less likely to regret what they did or change their minds. So it sounds like your guys on the right path. That is so true. My MM is one of the ones who took his time, many years even. Now he's on a fast-track to separation and divorce. He's moving into his own apartment next week. Everything is now happening so much quicker than we ever anticipated. I'm happy for you, Mount, I hope everything works out for you. Link to post Share on other sites
So happy together Posted June 6, 2013 Share Posted June 6, 2013 It's nice to see some couples moving forward with S and D. I love hearing success stories ( for some, I'm not considered a 'success' yet, because he's only left six months ago) and wish good things for you. Hang in there, it's going to be a helluva ride. Link to post Share on other sites
snowflakes88 Posted June 6, 2013 Share Posted June 6, 2013 It's nice to see some couples moving forward with S and D. I love hearing success stories ( for some, I'm not considered a 'success' yet, because he's only left six months ago) and wish good things for you. Hang in there, it's going to be a helluva ride. He's already gone back to his wife. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mount Posted June 6, 2013 Author Share Posted June 6, 2013 Yes...the MM acted drastically 180 turn...this post can be closed for now. He's already gone back to his wife. Link to post Share on other sites
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