beautiful Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 I have been dating this guy for about 2.5 month now. So far everything was going well. We spend weekends together and had a wonderful time. He has been honest, caring and truly showed me he wants me in his life. Out of the blue last night he told me that he had worries that he does not feel the same way about me as I feel about him . He also told me he had a friend (a girl) that he thinks about and he thinks it is not fair to me to be thinking about this girl and being with me. He told me that he is not sure if me and him are meant to be and that he needs a little time to sort this all out. He told me he does not want to hurt me. I am thankful that he is open enough to tell me all these things instead of going behind my back. It is easy to give advice when I am not in the situation however it is a different story when it now affects my life. I know that if he truly wants to be with me, he won't allow anyone else to come into his life like that. So I told him that he has to find out what he wants, I won't wait or compete with someone else, however I will keep the door open. There is no way I could fall in love with a man after only being with him 2.5 month..........how strange that I now know that indeed I was falling in love with him and that this is truly putting a hurt on me. What is left to do for me in this situation? Any advice would be great. Has anyone ever been in such a situation and if so , what did you do? Link to post Share on other sites
Think too much Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 I have never been in your situation but I would have rather been instead of being dumped and ignored. He sounds very respectful. Give him his space. You don't want to stay involved with him if he is thinking about someone else. I would tell him that you appreciate the fact that he was open and honest with you and treated you with respect. Let him know that you will not sit on the sideline and wait but you will respect his wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovehertodeath Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 You are doing everything you should be doing. He told you about his situation and thats that. Men dont play games. When we say something like that we MEAN it, unlike girls. You see how he came out and told you EVERYTHING.... logical thinking at its best!! He didnt feed you with BS and keep you on a string. I hate to tell you this but you are missing out on a GREAT GUY but just like everything else...we cant always get what we WANT! Just move on..your time will come. Link to post Share on other sites
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