jayroc Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Hey, I have a problem with my best friend. She's 20, and wants to move in with this guy who is 32. She has a 14 month old boy, and the father is nowhere in her life. Now, the problem I have is this guy only wants one thing, and she's too naive too see it. I've talked to thid guy, and he only wants to "get in there", as he puts it. I don't know if I should just let her make the mistake, or try to tell her that this is a BAAAAD idea. I mean, once she figures this out, she'll be pissed. he's known her since she was 13 , because his family lives down the block from her family. I mean, isn't that kinda wierd? I've also known her son since the day he was born, so it's gonna kinda screw him up too I would think. She's not a whore, I mean, she's only been with two guys twice in her entire life, and happened to get pregnant. Oh yeah, this guy is moving back across the country and wont have a job-yet. I dunno... Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly10340 Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 You can tell her of your concern and what he said, but don't tell her what to do. Sometimes people have to make their own mistakes to really learn from them. It may be a mistake, but it's her mistake to make. I don't see a problem though with telling her what he said, because let's face it, that's pretty crappy that he would say that. At least if you told her she would have all the information she needs to make a decision about what she wants to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Yes, I think she deserves to know. She is, after all, your best friend. Link to post Share on other sites
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