Guess I Am Over Reacting.

[ziggue]

My boyfriend's brother and his brother's fiance were up for the weekend. They live about a 4 hour drive away.

 

I had only met them a couple of times like 3 or 4. Already the fiance has decided that I am not good enough for my boyfriend. . She hasn't even gotten the change to get to know me.

 

I have a good job, come from a good family, never cause any problems in our relationship. Don't know what her deal is.

 

My boyfriend went out with them and a friend of his on Saturday night and she was like "Why don't you get another girlfriend?" "Go out with a blonde. I want a blonde sister in law". My boyfriend was like "I already have a girlfriend". Apparently she said some other things too that no one will tell me. .

 

Maybe it's because I am 3 years older then him? Or that I am half Asian. (My mum is Philipine and my dad is Australian) People say I barely look Asian. Even though you can obviously still see it. Lol. Or I am skinnier then she is.

 

I was in her fiance's year at School. I wasn't friend's with him. Didn't even know he had a younger brother. Maybe she thinks that is strange. Going out with somebody's younger brother that was in the same grade as me. Or that I've known him longer then she has. Even know his school friends.

 

My boyfriend says she is very judgemental. It doesn't matter to him what she says. She's not in the relationship. His friends and parents like me and that's all that matters too him. . Don't know how he's brother feels about me.

 

I know I am obsessing over this but I just don't want anything too ruin this relationship. It's the best I have been in so far.

 

Don't know how I am going to get through spending the whole weekend with them at the Engagement Party in two weeks. Knowing that they probably don't want me there. Only my boyfriend and his mum do. His mum wants me too meet her side of the family.

[Papillon]

Screw the bitch. She obviously has issues, is bitter and miserable and needs someone else to feel miserable.

 

Stop fussing. You can never have everyone like you, that's just the deal with people.

[iceprincess]

If I were you, I could care less about what she thinks. Do not try to change yourself so that she'll like you. She's obviously shown herself to be a selfish, inconsiderate, and immature person and there are red flags for your boyfriend's brother. Does he really want to marry this GIRL??

 

Keep being yourself and just know that the most important people are the ones that already know and care about you.

 

If your boyfriend is going to the engagement party, then you should go with him. Her family may or may not be like her because she has no valid reasons for disliking you. Go and have fun.

[StillHurtin]

I agree, I wouldn't care what she says or does. As long as your BF loves you and wants to be w/ you, who cares what she thinks. I have two sil and one does not like the other. My older brother's wife does not like my little brother's wife. A part of her cares that she dislikes her, the other part she doesn't care b/c she loves my little brother w/ all her heart and she isn't going to let my spoiled, rich, b!tch other sil ruin her marriage. They have been getting along a little bit better in the last year but they will never be friends.

[Maria46]

I agree with Papillon!!!

 

Definate issues!!! Jealous and insecure!!

 

Don't let her get to you!! He loves you!

[ziggue]

Thanks for your replies. . I am still going to that Engagement Party. I am not going to let her selfishness get to me.

 

My friend said the exact same thing. "Why is he marrying her?" She hasn't met them though and I don't know what their relationship is like. Still I am not going too but into it.

 

Another person said to me be really nice and be yourself. Sort of similar too what Iceprincess said. That will proove what she is saying to be wrong.

 

If she still doesn't like me even after I try get to know her. Like Papillon said. I guess you can't have everyone like you.