iceisles Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Even though I was dumped, I would want to be back with my ex, if asked. The question is, should this unlikely situation arise, would it be better for me to agree right away or should I act like I need time to think about it? I would think the latter would make her sweat it out more and make her realize that I am just not forgetting about our past problems like they never happened. I appreciate your thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 That would be playing games and that's never good. If you play hard to get don't you think she'll say, "forget it, if he really wanted me back he would have said yes right away". That's too childish. If you like her and you want her back go for it without the games though. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted October 7, 2004 Author Share Posted October 7, 2004 Good point. If I'm lucky enough to have that opportunity, I'll just jump on it. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Stone Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 If you want to get back togeather don't play games but remember to set standards/ limits on how you would like to be treated and if she doesn't meet them you shouldn't continue the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Scott S Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 I concur. As I posted in your other thread, you may find that playing mind-games will drive you as crazy as her. Perhaps more so. Be brave. Be mature. Be a gentleman! Link to post Share on other sites
JamVan Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 I have broken up and gotten back three times with my current girlfriend. My only advice is if it feels right then you owe it to yourself to find out if it will work. Try forget the past and move forward. Talk about what went wrong before and stay open and honest to each other. We still do have our problems, but i know I love her and we always talk about how we should have always been together. Relationships are never easy, but with a little hard work, determination and trust, they can be very fulfilling!!! Link to post Share on other sites
weweregods Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Don't appear to be too eager to get back together... Yes, it's playing games. The thing is, we like to play games - games are fun! Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts