i dont know what to do?!?! help!!!!

[iNLuVw/U]

This guy used to like me and I used to like him too. 2-3 days after i got to know him, he asked me out. I said "No" because i wasn't ready for a relationship and he was going too fast. I started to ignore him and that got him upset. I told him that i just want to be friends with him and i sent him a sorry card. He sent me back saying that he got over it. But i believed he still had feelings for me. A couple of weeks later, we became good friends. He got to know him better and now i think I'm in love with him. i've never felt this way towards anyone before. He means a lot to me. I decided to tell him my feelings and he said, "i don't know what to say". The last couple of days, he's been acting weird. He hasn't been acting like himself. He ignors me, doesnt say 'Hi', and he doesnt talk to me online anymore (this is not an online relationship). i tried everything to show him that I like him. My friends told me that he doesn't like me anymore and that he likes someone else. It hurts to know this. I don't know what to do. I can't forget about him. I don't want to give him up. He means soo much to me. What should i do to try to get him back or make him give me a second chance? What is the best thing i should do? Should i just ignore him too? But that might lead us to end our friendship. Help me please!!

[Tony T]

The relationship hasn't gone great from the start. But right now, you are not a challenge to him. He really went bananas at first when he asked you out and you said no. Wow, that made you a real challenge. But when you spilled your guts and told him you were in love with him...well, you just played too many of your cards at once.

 

The best thing you can do now is absolutely nothing. Have no contact with him whatsoever. If there is any hope of you every getting back together with him, the lack of contact will drive him nuts and he will call you.

 

My own feeling is this entire relationship is pretty immature and neither of you are ready for a long term situation at this time.

 

Remember, whatever you do, have no contact with him until he calls you.

[iNLuVw/U]

The relationship hasn't gone great from the start. But right now, you are not a challenge to him. He really went bananas at first when he asked you out and you said no. Wow, that made you a real challenge. But when you spilled your guts and told him you were in love with him...well, you just played too many of your cards at once.

 

The best thing you can do now is absolutely nothing. Have no contact with him whatsoever. If there is any hope of you every getting back together with him, the lack of contact will drive him nuts and he will call you. My own feeling is this entire relationship is pretty immature and neither of you are ready for a long term situation at this time. Remember, whatever you do, have no contact with him until he calls you.

Do u ThiNK ThErE's A ChaNCe ThaT HE likEs SomEonE ElSe? WhAt if i iGnoRe Him....AnD LATer, We miGht EnD Up NoT talkiN to EaCh OthEr At aLL? ToNy hELp!

[Tony T]

1. "Do u ThiNK ThErE's A ChaNCe ThaT HE likEs SomEonE ElSe?"

 

There is always that chance. But if he is, that's all the more reason you shouldn't call him or have anything to do with him...all the more reason to go on with your life.

 

2. "WhAt if i iGnoRe Him....AnD LATer, We miGht EnD Up NoT talkiN to EaCh OthEr At aLL?"

 

If this guy likes you at all, he will call you. That's just what men do. They go after the girls they like. Men are hunters, pursuers...if they want something, they go after it.

 

If you end up not talking to each other, that's great. You have then eliminated somebody from your life that has give you problems and you won't have to deal with anymore. There are so very many men out there who will be so much better for you I can't begin to count them. You will need time to get over this guy but you need to start now. It takes some time but you'll be just fine. Meanwhile, don't contact him!!! It's his place to call you.

 

Any way you slice it, this doesn't sound like the stuff great romance is made of.