warning signs update

[Clay]

How long do you want this to go on? Clearly she is doing shady things. Have you asked her about these things? If so what is she saying? I would sit her down and tell her how your feeling . Tell her you need to tell you about this. If she has good excuses that you can VERIFY then maybe your reading to much into it. If she can't or wont and turns it back on you then you have your answer.

 

2 years is a long time to track someone. Maybe its time to walk away instead of feeling like you have monitor everything. Even if she is or is not cheating your going to drive yourself crazy.

 

C

[bobwhite007]

How long do you want this to go on? Clearly she is doing shady things. Have you asked her about these things? If so what is she saying? I would sit her down and tell her how your feeling . Tell her you need to tell you about this. If she has good excuses that you can VERIFY then maybe your reading to much into it. If she can't or wont and turns it back on you then you have your answer.

 

2 years is a long time to track someone. Maybe its time to walk away instead of feeling like you have monitor everything. Even if she is or is not cheating your going to drive yourself crazy.

 

C

. I have sat her down and told her what I am thinking, every time it gets turned around on me. I've tried very hard to give her the benefit of the doupt, Ian starting now to not even really care. Two years is nothing compared to the 35 I have invested. I want to see it thru and have her exposed to everyone that she ain't the angel they think they are.

[flowergirl14]

Well I've beat my brains out trying to figure this all out. Var in the trunk not good, put it under the seat.1st listen will tell the story, mine was pretty garbled but I heard enough.phone records show 70+ calls to a plumbing contractor in Ga.All business related. Lol. Couldnt sleep and she started leaving phone out so I could easily access it.plumber been deleted, he's married anyway and would never cheat, lol.looked at app store on her phone, she didn't think she would have to delete hangout app.she had a different last name and two frequent contacts, one not being the plumber. 1insurance man, one man she used to work for.iam afraid I been a fool for along time how disgusting. Where do I go from here?

You could install spyware on her phone. It records sms messages gps picts. Go with a reputable company. There are a couple good ones out there. Make sure its hidden. Also go to your cell phone provider. Often they can provide a list of text message numbers. (Sms ) they cannot provide content. So if she is deleting then the #'s should be there. Unfortunately they use game apps to chat. So see if she is playing any games. Also she may have a second phone hidden in the car or house.

[Clay]

. I have sat her down and told her what I am thinking, every time it gets turned around on me. I've tried very hard to give her the benefit of the doupt, Ian starting now to not even really care. Two years is nothing compared to the 35 I have invested. I want to see it thru and have her exposed to everyone that she ain't the angel they think they are.

 

The odds of you really getting that without hiring a private investigator is rare. I really do understand you hurt. Man the best way is to walk away. She knows what she is doing and honestly people do this because they thing they can just keep getting away with it. If you walk away what will she loose?

 

C

[Sandy43]

There are programs you can get to retrieve deleted content from cell phones.

[bubbaganoosh]

Well, gps shows her at a residence on the other side of town for the last 60 minutes, she won't respond to my texts. I have made her feel very comfortable for the last few weeks and just like all the stories say it happens they go right back to the Same ole thing. Still I have no concrete proof but this time I gonna go on like everything is fine and hopefully she hangs herself? If it goes like it has in the past if I come on to her tonight I end up getting oral,every time so far I think she been up to extra curicular activities she does that, only decent part of this whole deal, lol. She really thinks I'm stupid. And you all probably do too.

 

You know you could be single, not have any worries about a wife who maybe cheating and still get oral. Hell you can hire a hooker for 20 bucks and get oral. If I had a doubt about my wife being faithful and having that on my mind, she could huff and puff my junk all night and I wouldn't get up. My self respect and dignity takes the top spot.

[BetrayedH]

Well, gps shows her at a residence on the other side of town for the last 60 minutes, she won't respond to my texts. I have made her feel very comfortable for the last few weeks and just like all the stories say it happens they go right back to the Same ole thing. Still I have no concrete proof but this time I gonna go on like everything is fine and hopefully she hangs herself? If it goes like it has in the past if I come on to her tonight I end up getting oral,every time so far I think she been up to extra curicular activities she does that, only decent part of this whole deal, lol. She really thinks I'm stupid. And you all probably do too.

 

Why didn't you just go over there yourself?

 

This reminds me of when you saw her in the car with some other dude at a cemetary and didn't confront her at the scene. And she talked her way out of it.

[Raena]

Why didn't you just go over there yourself?

 

This reminds me of when you saw her in the car with some other dude at a cemetary and didn't confront her at the scene. And she talked her way out of it.

 

I wondered the same thing. What good does it do to gps her, know she's at a specific residence and not actually go there to find out what's going on?

 

I would have gone and sat outside the residence waiting for her to leave and confronted her there instead of waiting at home to find out what story she'd weave about where she was.