LostNConfused Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 Hey Everyone, well heres my problem. I went out with this girl for 10 months and it seemed like we would never let go of each other, but then we started getting in all these stupid fights and finally she said that she couldnt take it anymore. Its been about three months since then and after she got over it we became really good friends again. I still lover her with all my heart, but she says she only wants to be friends rite now. The thing I dont understand is the way she acts around me. Shes occacionally comes over and she is all over me, we act like we are going out. After this kept happening she decided that we should call it "dating" because we were too close to be called just friends. She would kiss me and we couldnt keep our hands off of each other, and I just dont get it. She says she still loves me but yet she wont go out with me. Maybe someone could help me out with what I could do. I love this girl with all my heart and I want her back sooo bad. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovehertodeath Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 DUDE, Re-attach your sac ASAP! This girl is taking your heart for a ride and you're letting her do it....she knows it too. She doesn't sound like very much of a friend if she's doing what shes doing to you....does it? To me it sounds like shes feeding off your attention and you're STUPID enough to think something is going to come out of it. You are blinded by your feelings for her that you are thinking some day she's going to realize how great of a guy you are, etc....right? WELL ITS NOT GONNA HAPPEN....... Just whos reality do you live in anyway? Launch this attention whore and look for #1 Are you willing to wait around for her to bang the entire block then come and lay the baggage out for you? Link to post Share on other sites
alicia24 Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 Sounds like maybe she's afraid of a serious committment. Dont worry about giving your relationship a specific name. If everything is ok than who cares if you are dating or bf/gf. Just make sure you are both on the same page as far as seeing other people. She also may be thinking that there is something for her out there. You sound pretty wonderful so eventually she will come around and realize it doesnt get better than you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LostNConfused Posted October 8, 2004 Author Share Posted October 8, 2004 oh and one day she decided she doesnt want to be kissing me anymore and she doesnt feel comfortable with it. I just dont get it, why is she sooo scared of getting back into anything with me. Its not like what you said Iloverhertodeath, at all. shes way too innocent. Her feelings are just all messed up and it hurts me, because I still lover her and I think she finally starting to want me back and she decides she doesnt want it. In some ways I feel like she is using me because when it was her birthday, I got her 15 pink roses and I took her to the mall and let her pick out some clothes for her b-day also. that put a big hole in my pocket but I dont care at all because its something I felt right in doing, because I love this girl sooo much and I felt like I had to do something special for her. Yet now I dont even think she appreciates it. I need there to be something I can do to bring her back to me, because it seems like she is stuck on what to do. She doesnt know if she wants to be with me or not and its hurting me because I feel like my heart is being played with. Please say something if you have any ideas of what I should do or what you think about it. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
alicia24 Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 how old the both of you Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovehertodeath Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 UGGGH! DUDE!!!!!!! She's all over the attention you are giving her, women dont think "logically" like us men....they think with "FEELING". If she was into you 100%, etc....she would have showed it. She's Flakey, Indecisive and REMEMBER... you can never convince a woman of something. Shes an attention whore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing will ever evolve out of this!!!!!!! The only remedy for you and her is to BREAK-UP with HER. You will find another woman and then you will find her realizing how much of a dumbass she is. The PURE and SIMPLE fact of, she always wanting to be friends is probably because its you that keeps bothering her.....WHY ARE YOU BUYING HER STUFF???? THAT ONLY CHASES HER AWAY YOU MORON!?!?! YOU ARENT EXACTL HELPING. GROW A SAC! You are looking for something that cant be found where you're looking for it at.....are you catching the drift? Shes not the one for you so just ACCEPT it and move on..get it? Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovehertodeath Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 It's NOT your job to be her emotional caretaker. She's an attention whore and the only way anything is going to be fixed is if you kick her out of your life. If not...YOU are going to continue hurting and shes going to think NOTHING is wrong because women don't "THINK" REMEMBER..... MEN ARE "LOGICAL" THINKERS WHEN IT COMES TO THESE THINGS and WOMEN THINK WITH THEIR "FEELINGS". Just launch the dumb broad already. Can't you see what she's doing to you? Just who's reality do you live in anyway? Link to post Share on other sites
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