jay Posted December 18, 2000 Share Posted December 18, 2000 15/m i have a problem approaching girls which i kinda got over now its more of a problem talking to them if anyone can help it would be so very appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 19, 2000 Share Posted December 19, 2000 You have to understand that the girls have the same problems as guys do. Gaining confidence with the ladies takes time and comes with experience. Start with conversing with female friends and work past that to the ladies you are interested in romantically. Treat them like normal human beings. Don't go out of your way to try to impress them or be someone you're not...they can sense that right away. Get comfortable with rejection. If you understand going into this love game that not every girl you approach is going to love you, like you or even want to talk to you at all, you will be one step ahead of the game. There are many females in this world and the ones who reject you are just a part of those. There are many who would love to be a part of your world and those are the ones you must go for. If you just go blank when you try to talk to a particular girl, plan your conversation topics ahead of time...make an outline...look it over...and plan out what you will say. You can improvise at the same time. The best thing you can do is relax and just go with the flow of the conversation. Pretend like you're a talk show host and keep things moving along. The more you do it, the more confident you'll get. But practicing with ladie friends is the best training you can get. Link to post Share on other sites
VICIOUS KID LERKS Posted December 19, 2000 Share Posted December 19, 2000 Usually cracking a joke or two will help lighten the mood and shift it out of "I want to date you" mode...which is great, but don't take it too far, or else honey will think of you as a "friend" which sucks. Hope I helped. harmony, Lil Kid Lerks Link to post Share on other sites
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