SlickWalrus Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 After the end of my relationship with my LDR girlfriend of 1½ year (we both honestly felt like soulmates and loved eachother to bits and pieces), I'm struggling with the idea of ever being able to find a girl who could possibly live up to my now ex-girlfriend. Everyone seems to shallow, uninteresting even. I happen to be ridiculously picky, and my ex-girlfriend was pretty much everything I could EVER ask for in a woman. After this relationship, I realized that I'm not simply out for a "girl", I want a proper woman who acts her age instead of someone immature. I'm a very dedicated and committed person, so I'm not looking to just find someone I can play cave-explorer with (wink). Are these demands unreasonable? Link to post Share on other sites
thatone Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Did you ever actually meet the long distance one in person? If not, that's why, you have a fantasy image in your head that does not exist. If so, honestly....same answer. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr_Flay Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 someone I can play cave-explorer with (wink). Umm... Please tell me it's some new facebook game. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 You are kidding, right? Your ex- GF was absolutely, totally far from ideal. She was a liar and a cheater. AFAIK, you didn't actually ever meet, but just skyped and connected via PC.... So really, your standards are impossible and fantasy-laden. How can you possibly say she was 'pretty much everything you'd EVER want in a woman?" And you met her gaming? I think actually, you need to get out more and socialise on a one-to-one basis with real people, in real places and get to know people better, that way.......... Link to post Share on other sites
melodicintention Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 I don't think you should be worrying about dating because as your post reads, sounds like you aren't over this last girl. Sounds like you are comparing everyone to her and that won't go well even if you find someone like her. You aren't Adelle are you? Link to post Share on other sites
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