lavenderlove Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 Do you realise that you went through a midlife crisis? Link to post Share on other sites
NomiMalone Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 I'd ask him "why? Just why??" Link to post Share on other sites
Talulah Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 I would just stare and not ask questions Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 I asked my ex all sorts of quetions after i felt indifferent a few months ago and broke NC after 7 months to catch up. I posted for you guys. It really isnt all that interesting getting the answers. After 8 years with me: she loves the new guy she didnt miss me and me being NC didnt make her the least bit curious she was super busy with her new rs she though that i didnt miss her or suffer she never expected to hear from me again because i said i was going NC she was extremely releived when she broke up with me None of this info affected me. we still talk every once in a while. Her life is sorta boring to me now and im super happy to be out and grateful that we broke up (that i got dumped). I am happy in my new rs and new girl blows aways ex. Once you recover if you want to get answer you can but they are pretty mundane once u dont care. Rock on! Cav Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 I asked my ex all sorts of quetions after i felt indifferent a few months ago and broke NC after 7 months to catch up. I posted for you guys. It really isnt all that interesting getting the answers. After 8 years with me: she loves the new guy she didnt miss me and me being NC didnt make her the least bit curious she was super busy with her new rs she though that i didnt miss her or suffer she never expected to hear from me again because i said i was going NC she was extremely releived when she broke up with me None of this info affected me. we still talk every once in a while. Her life is sorta boring to me now and im super happy to be out and grateful that we broke up (that i got dumped). I am happy in my new rs and new girl blows aways ex. Once you recover if you want to get answer you can but they are pretty mundane once u dont care. Rock on! Cav Congratulations : ))) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smileyz Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 would you bring your new bf to my funeral? like you did me? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 would you bring your new bf to my funeral? Like you did me? she did what ? Link to post Share on other sites
Delilah1623 Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 I think my recent ex ended it because he was afraid of getting hurt again and would treat me like crap when he would get depressed and hated that he treated me like crap. We just broke up Thursday but I'd like to know in the future if he's figured out that he's hurt himself more than I ever would have hurt him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 I think my recent ex ended it because he was afraid of getting hurt again and would treat me like crap when he would get depressed and hated that he treated me like crap. We just broke up Thursday but I'd like to know in the future if he's figured out that he's hurt himself more than I ever would have hurt him. And if he would change that self destructive behavior Link to post Share on other sites
LovelyScars Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Why can you be friends with your other ex but not me? Did I really mean nothing to you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 There could be many reasons for that either they put up with more from him or he cared more about them and they less about him. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 "How 'convenient' are things now?" Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Can we go to a proper coffee shop next time where they know how to make an espresso properly? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 Wish that was a biggest problem in relationships Emilia 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HopelessRomantick Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 I asked my ex all sorts of quetions after i felt indifferent a few months ago and broke NC after 7 months to catch up. I posted for you guys. It really isnt all that interesting getting the answers. After 8 years with me: she loves the new guy she didnt miss me and me being NC didnt make her the least bit curious she was super busy with her new rs she though that i didnt miss her or suffer she never expected to hear from me again because i said i was going NC she was extremely releived when she broke up with me None of this info affected me. we still talk every once in a while. Her life is sorta boring to me now and im super happy to be out and grateful that we broke up (that i got dumped). I am happy in my new rs and new girl blows aways ex. Once you recover if you want to get answer you can but they are pretty mundane once u dont care. Rock on! Cav Wow! Good for you that you were totally unaffected by her answers. Given the way I feel now, I know I would be devastated to hear answers like this... Envious... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nyclovin Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Would giving me a heads up have killed you? Link to post Share on other sites
Nicoleiia Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Why do you suck so bad? Lol this is the best thread ever. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
daftpunk Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 " What the #$%^ ?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 Why do you suck so bad? Lol this is the best thread ever. Thank You Link to post Share on other sites
LME Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 I'm not certain that I have any questions for her but I would definitely say to her: "We didn't give each other the opportunity to work it out..." It's all in the past now, no need to dwell on it. yah this was a big thing for me too. my breakup is still fresh but that is oneof the most painful parts of it. i guess we did not love each other enough to try and work it out, but its always a difficult thing to think about when you believe things maybe could have been better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 yah this was a big thing for me too. my breakup is still fresh but that is oneof the most painful parts of it. i guess we did not love each other enough to try and work it out, but its always a difficult thing to think about when you believe things maybe could have been better. That could be blessing in disguise Link to post Share on other sites
Kobe2345 Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 So why are you dating a new guy within two weeks or so when you said you wanted to be on your own? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 So why are you dating a new guy when you said you needed to be on your own? Oh very good one Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 24, 2013 Author Share Posted July 24, 2013 "How 'convenient' are things now?" 4 Some of them is all they know "convenience" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HopelessRomantick Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 So why are you dating a new guy within two weeks or so when you said you wanted to be on your own? Nice one Kobe! I can relate to this one too and put it a little differently: So why did you land in a relationship with a guy living in the UK "WEEKS" later when you said you wanted to experience dating and dating local guys instead of an LDR, hmmm? Link to post Share on other sites
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