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Confissledone

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Hmm... weird thread indeed.

 

My experiences in this are somewhat explicit. I've never had a fantasy involving more than just my fiance' and I. I am very well aware that guys find my fiance' attractive. I've been in fights because they wouldn't back off when she told them she was engaged.

 

Just really can't comprehend this whole idea... but I know I'm in the minority.

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Confissledone

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Originally posted by emopunk

Hmm... weird thread indeed.

 

My experiences in this are somewhat explicit. I've never had a fantasy involving more than just my fiance' and I. I am very well aware that guys find my fiance' attractive. I've been in fights because they wouldn't back off when she told them she was engaged.

 

Just really can't comprehend this whole idea... but I know I'm in the minority.

 

I was just like you are, I used to be an extremely jealous boyfriend, I wouldn't like her hangin out with guys along or anything similar. It is VERY weird indeed.

 

You are not the minority, I am..unless I turn back to my old self.

 

Thanks for posting

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Confissledone

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Originally posted by Merin

:rolleyes:

 

For a minute I thought that was a smile until I put my curser over it and it was an eyeroll

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zilverenvlinder

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Hey! you're not the only one

 

I fantasize about my boyfriend having sex with other girls all the time!

 

I swear to god, it's one of my favorites.

 

You're not weird :) don't worry

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Confissledone

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Well, just about 4 years later after creating this thread I was going through my email and I had completely forgotten about this forum, I clicked on it and I remember I posted about this fantasy. Figured I'd update from where I left off.

 

Alright, so the g/f and I are still together. The weird fantasy I wasnt sure about came true a few short months after creating this thread. in Nov 2005 she started dating and seeing other guys...It did not affect our relationship at all, in fact it made it stronger and spiced out sex life a lot. She has dated/had sex with 14 guys since Nov 2005 and has told me that I am the one for her and she's no longer doing this.

 

We both dont regret having done this, it has given her some experience that has helped her realize what she has at home. I personally loved seeing her get ready for dates so it didn't bother me at all.

 

Sorry if I kept you guys waiting for so long but things like these take time. One happy ending, something not all couples are able to achieve without plenty of open communication about their feelings.

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I am curious but why were you not fearful of catching an STD? It sounds to me you put both of you in an extremely dangerous health situation.

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This is not as weird as you think because I have this fantasy/fetish too. And so do many men. I did research on this a few months back. There's actually a name for this. I forgot what its called though.

 

Just knowing that she's doing someone else like a little whore really turns me on. I like slutty girls. This act makes her much more sluttier to me. It makes me desire her that much more!

 

But this fantasy is really selfish. She's doing it so that you can get off on her stories, not really for herself unless she likes to do it too. It's dangerous and It could get confusing and complicated. I let me ex gf do some other guys before but this is because I wanted to her to move on. I don't know if I could ask someone I love to do this though. It's rather selfish don't you agree?

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I am curious but why were you not fearful of catching an STD? It sounds to me you put both of you in an extremely dangerous health situation.

 

I believe that as long as you're not ignorant as to how you can get infected and you're aware of what you have to do to stay clean, everything should be alright. Its obvious that most STDs, STIs also HIV is transfered through bodily fluids such as semen, blood, and saliva. Some are with direct skin contact such as warts.

 

She makes sure the men she sleeps with wear protection at all times and she doesnt really perform oral on them so I believe we're good...although still a risk, we try to have good odds on our side.

 

As for the guys she has fully given herself to, in other words they've had my girlfriend without condom, they came inside her and got oral from her...for the guys that got that privelege with her, they all got tested prior to having her like that and made sure everyone is clean.

 

I hope I've answered your question on us fearing catching something. I believe we're doing well.

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This is not as weird as you think because I have this fantasy/fetish too. And so do many men. I did research on this a few months back. There's actually a name for this. I forgot what its called though.

 

Just knowing that she's doing someone else like a little whore really turns me on. I like slutty girls. This act makes her much more sluttier to me. It makes me desire her that much more!

 

But this fantasy is really selfish. She's doing it so that you can get off on her stories, not really for herself unless she likes to do it too. It's dangerous and It could get confusing and complicated. I let me ex gf do some other guys before but this is because I wanted to her to move on. I don't know if I could ask someone I love to do this though. It's rather selfish don't you agree?

 

The fantasy is called "Hotwive Lifestyle" or can also be "Cuckhold Lifestyle" they both have the same concept except one is a bit more extreme on teasing the husband/boyfriend and making him work harder.

 

I do think its a bit selfish but then again this is Hotwifing not swinging...swinging is where both then husband and wife swap partners. I do believe that one day we're both gonna get into swinging actually.

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Strawberry Fields

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I think I'm like you, only in reverse. Sometimes I have these sexual fantasies about my boyfriend cheating on me - like me walking in on him and another girl - and I'm totally aroused by it. I would never want him to cheat on me and I am by all means against it, but I think it's harmless to fantasize about it. After all, fantasies aren't really meant to happen.

 

Anyway, as time went on my fantasies got a little more intense. I began to think of me and another girl, or even more than just one other girl, being on him. I was so in love with that fantasy that I actually decided to tell him about it. At first he was a little creeped out, but he eventually shrugged it off. He later admitted to sometimes imagining me involved with other men in group sex. Now, I totally disagree with this part, but he can imagine it all he wants. As long as he doesn't force something that I do not want then I don't have a problem with it.

 

Ultimately, I think it's harmless. I don't think it means that you want to be with other women or you think less of your partner - I just think you're adding some spice to your sexual imagination. You don't have to act out on it - in fact, it's more fun making up new stories and bizarre situations in your head instead. :)

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