Confissledone Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 Well I recently started to realize a fantasy that I didn't want to believe was my fantasy. The fantasy is having my girlfriend of almost 3 years to have sex with another guy or guys, once or a couple of times. And also like one day she (maybe me too) hang out in a room/house full of guys while she's the only girl there and have her dressed up real sexy and flirty with her high heels and tease all of the guys by dancing, showing herself, and letting all of them do stuff to her since she's such a flirtatious girl. I would also love to be in a 3some with her (mmf the more M's the better). I don't know why it turns me on so much thinking about my girlfriend of almost 3 years which I really truly love, doing all this stuff with all these guys. 2 nights ago I told her my fantasy and she said she couldn't do that to me. I'm a jealous guy but I keep imagining her half stripped down teasing and doing a house full of guys I don't know why I'm ok with it and really want her to it. Do any of you out there have any similar cases or fantasies? Oh and please don't post if you're only gonna be insulting. Link to post Share on other sites
Swanny Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 wow! thats one hell of a fantasy! ever thought of swinging? or going to them sex clubs where ppl have sex with alot of ppl (this is me thinking she is into it). Dont worry the ppl who go to these sex clubs r tested and checked and stuff..... umm.. amazing! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 12, 2004 Author Share Posted October 12, 2004 Damn, this subject has been posted for a day now and there's only one responce...is there any advice out there? or do people in this forum not believe in givin advice to guys who want their girl done? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t42516 Try that link. This guy wants to share his woman too, you are not alone. Have you talked to your girlfriend about this? She may find it repulsing. Or not. Link to post Share on other sites
DJ_Dork Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 Has it ever occured to anyone that this type of behavior is an indication of sexual disorder? Yes it is a form of sexual addictive disorder, don't deny it. Seek professional help. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 I think your fantasy is not that uncommon. Nothing wrong in having fantasies like this, as long as you don't try to force your partner into acting them out. You said you are a jealous guy... I don't know why I'm ok with it and really want her to it are you sure? really sure? perhaps you just *think* you'd like to see her in the situation. Could you handle the real situation? (and keep in mind that in reality things don't go as you imagine them in your fantasies. you have complete control over your fantasies...NOT over people's actions in reality. The fantasy of your dreams, when acted out, might become a nightmare come true. So be careful of what you wish! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 13, 2004 Author Share Posted October 13, 2004 I completely agree with you Adunaphel, I really see her doing this physically in my head and I am ok with it, but I want to know how'd I react in reality. Right now I am sure, yes I really am but then again, its better to be sure if I am or not wanting her to act this out. So I've been thinking and already told my girlfriend to test me out. Here's what might happen: My girlfriend is going to get all dressed up in a nice sexy outfit, quite revealing, nice hair and attention demanding looks, ok now once she's hoochied up. We're going to a mall and we're not gonna be together but I will be far from her observing. She's gonna walk around the mall pretending to look around, She's gonna purposedly pass by large groups of guys and if someone decides to say something to her then she'll like turn around and start flirting (as planned) and she's gonna give him her cell number if he asks...then I'll call her up while they're talking and she'll say she has to go because her mom is picking her up. Now she can talk to the guy and probably hang out just to ensure if I will be getting jealous when she tells me she's going out with him somewhere. Now, after this being done, I will now for sure now if I am capable of letting her act out my fantasy with many guys. If not, then it'll just remain a fantasy in my thoughts Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 15, 2004 Author Share Posted October 15, 2004 Has anyone ever tried it out or ever thought of it..or do any if you have any comments or advice please post it Link to post Share on other sites
Nnjguy Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 I also have been with my girl for 3 years and have the same exact fantasy, I have fantasies of her teasing a guy or guys and making them all hard manybe stripping and giving them lapdances. I also want her to flash her panties in bars. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 So I've been thinking and already told my girlfriend to test me out. Here's what might happen: My girlfriend is going to get all dressed up in a nice sexy outfit, quite revealing, nice hair and attention demanding looks, ok now once she's hoochied up. We're going to a mall and we're not gonna be together but I will be far from her observing. She's gonna walk around the mall pretending to look around, She's gonna purposedly pass by large groups of guys and if someone decides to say something to her then she'll like turn around and start flirting (as planned) and she's gonna give him her cell number if he asks...then I'll call her up while they're talking and she'll say she has to go because her mom is picking her up. You left out the most important detail: would your girlfriend actually *enjoy* playing this game?I might be wrong but I got the idea she is not into this stuff from your first post. Also, if she actually gives her number to someone.....how will you handle that? Are you planning to keep her cell phone checked? (and risk to turn into a control freak?) How will you react if a guy will actually call? Will you expect her to inform him she has a bf in the very moment he calls? (and look like a stupid game-playing teaser?) Would you like her to continue 'playing'? Will you be able to trust her? What if you won't? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 19, 2004 Author Share Posted October 19, 2004 Well, that was just an idea to see if she was up for it, but if she says No, then its no. I'm not going to force my girl into dressing up and walking in a mall looking for men, its wrong and I know it is...even if she wants to do it. I just wanted to see if I am actually ok with her performing my fantasy if she were to say yes. Link to post Share on other sites
shortbus74 Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 fantasy is nice....but reality is a whole other ball game.....(see previous post about how I a girls ##) I was not happy to say the least........ ask.....Adunaphel... I was not amused........................ If you decide to do it prepare youself to be the green eyed monster.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 22, 2004 Author Share Posted October 22, 2004 I've really thought about it and many times in the past I had second thoughts, but the thought keeps coming back and I am fully decided that if my girlfriend wants to experiment and have sex with other guys, I will not hold her back as long as it is simply sex with no emotions involved. If you guys ever heard of the hotwife lifestyle or the cuckhold theory, you might get an idea of where I'm coming from. For now, she's able to enjoy sexual freedom, if she's decided. I have not and will not pressure her, all I've done is tell her that if she wants to, she can make herself sexually available. I know to most of you out there, I am a real dumbass but that's just your opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 27, 2004 Author Share Posted October 27, 2004 Well guess what everyone, just found out my girlfriend had sex with 2 different guys the past 2 nights Link to post Share on other sites
hulavie Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 How are you taking the news? How do you feel? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 27, 2004 Author Share Posted October 27, 2004 Not bad, kind of exciting. She told me the details and stuff. I feel sexy Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Originally posted by Confissledone Well I recently started to realize a fantasy that I didn't want to believe was my fantasy. The fantasy is having my girlfriend of almost 3 years to have sex with another guy or guys, once or a couple of times. And also like one day she (maybe me too) hang out in a room/house full of guys while she's the only girl there and have her dressed up real sexy and flirty with her high heels and tease all of the guys by dancing, showing herself, and letting all of them do stuff to her since she's such a flirtatious girl. I would also love to be in a 3some with her (mmf the more M's the better). I don't know why it turns me on so much thinking about my girlfriend of almost 3 years which I really truly love, doing all this stuff with all these guys. 2 nights ago I told her my fantasy and she said she couldn't do that to me. I'm a jealous guy but I keep imagining her half stripped down teasing and doing a house full of guys I don't know why I'm ok with it and really want her to it. Do any of you out there have any similar cases or fantasies? Oh and please don't post if you're only gonna be insulting. I have this exact same fantasy. My wife also has a fantasy of doing a gangbang. A few years ago we tried to pick up another guy or girl for a 3some but never went thru with it. The idea hasn't come up lately. I believe I have this fantasy because deep down I resent my wife for earning more than me and for being the head of the household. Having her degrade herself by having a bunch of guys hold her down and use her just to get there horny boners off is my way of putting her down to build myself up. My wife has this fantasy because she is very dominant and by doing a gangbang she will become submissive. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 27, 2004 Author Share Posted October 27, 2004 If you and your wife have the fantasy of a gangbang what are you waiting for? Now that my girlfriend had two guys and I know how I reacted, which I wasnt sure how I'd handle it. If she came home and told me she wanted a gangbang, I'd let her get gangbanged in a eye blink, then tease her afterward by telling her that she's a big girl now by having done all that Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Originally posted by Confissledone If you and your wife have the fantasy of a gangbang what are you waiting for? Well we are both 41, and have children. We aren't young swingers anymore. besides, how do we go about this? Put an ad in the paper "Men wanted to gangbang my wife"? Or do I let all my friends bang her? it's not that easy. Link to post Share on other sites
GF with others Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Hi there, read your thread, I've read about this before..a guy wants to see his girl either teasing or with another guy. It's either one of two things... 1. You want to make sure that other guys see your girlfriend as attractive and desireable 2. You're secretly gay Please don't take offense here, the majority of men who have that fantasy are in the #1 catagory. And since you've been in this relationship for 3 years, I'd say that you do sometimes wonder if guys are checking her out or not. It's normal. By the way the whole #2 thing would be because you want to check out another guy, not your girl doing the act. But hearing what I am here, it's #1 for you. Now the question is, are you going to do anything about it? It's up to you, just go in with both eyes open. Hope that helps! Hunter Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Originally posted by GF with others 2. You're secretly gay That's crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 28, 2004 Author Share Posted October 28, 2004 Well, thanks for your opinion, no offense taken. I can surely tell you I am 100% straight and my confidence level is also 100% and yes the reason why I dont mind this happening is because of "#1" as you said. Also sometimes you just gotta let the women enjoy things when they're young, and even not so young. I dont need to be there when she's getting f#cked, being told details is fine for me. Its just the thought of her being a naughty girl that makes me feel good because I know she's mine and she's just teasing guys that can only have her in bed but not have her completely. For this kind of stuff to happen in a relationship, the relationship must be very strong and have lots of communication along with trust, which there's plenty of. Link to post Share on other sites
3some Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 Can you give us all the details? I have always wanted to see my wife gangbanged also. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confissledone Posted October 29, 2004 Author Share Posted October 29, 2004 Well she told me in a cheesy way what she had done and she was kind of shy/nervous, yet she was happy about it. She admitted about being very easy with both of them, I guess she must've been turned on about it. For the first guy it started when she got out of school, she was gonna walk home and some guy from school offered her a ride and she accepted but on the way home he decided to cruise for a little bit, and she says he put his hand on her leg and she was going to slap him but she was getting turned on and she decided to let him because she remembered my offer which she wasn't even considering...moments later she asked him if anyone was at his house, as he said no, she asked him to take her to his house. Once they were at his house he stripped her down and 'it' happened. For the second guy, it happened when my girlfriend was hanging out at some old girlfriend's house and there was a couple of old girlfriends (this all was happening when I was at work). I guess her friends invited their boyfriends over and the boyfriends brought a friend, so my girlfriend and the other guy were the only ones that were left out, so one of her friends jokingly suggested that they have fun and thats where it all started, eventually when everyone was quiet just making out with their partner, he got all over her and was touching her all over and she told me in her own words "When he was on me, I remembered what you told me and what I could do, and I just let myself go" She told me that her friend let her use her room, once in the room she gave him a striptease and then gave him some. She said that she was in the room with him so long that her friends were all wondering how much longer they'd be in there. I guess they enjoyed it. After she told me these two stories, I was shocked because when I told her my fantasy she was disgusted but I guess she's enjoying it. I'm not too sure but she mentioned that there might be one more guy coming up, and that's gonna be the limit, she's just planning on doing it with those 3 guys because she says she doesn't want to get feelings for any of them, that usually happens if you're only with one. The only one that she's gonna have feelings for is me. And the other 3 are just for fun. Link to post Share on other sites
3some Posted October 29, 2004 Share Posted October 29, 2004 Wow! Sounds great! You should get all three guys together and have them take turns while you watch!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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