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Confissledone

You know.....lol. If I'm gonna sit there and watch 3 guys take turns on screwing my girlfriend, I might as well get in line to screw her too. That way its 4 guys on 1 girl, make sure she cant walk afterward :p

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Originally posted by 3some

Wow! Sounds great! You should get all three guys together and have them take turns while you watch!!!

 

Hey 3some, if this was happening to your gf/wife, would you let 3 guys just bang her and watch or would you join the fun?

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Originally posted by Confissledone

You know.....lol. If I'm gonna sit there and watch 3 guys take turns on screwing my girlfriend, I might as well get in line to screw her too. That way its 4 guys on 1 girl, make sure she cant walk afterward :p

 

 

This thread is getting ridiculous.

 

You obviously have no respect for your girlfriend, or women in general.

 

Sure, fantasies are exciting but come on now, they aren't reality.

 

Seriously wanting someone you love to get screwed by a bunch of horny guys until she can't walk is sickening.

 

There are plenty of sluts out there to use and abuse.

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FYI, Sluts are women too, and as most women..they also have feelings and just 'cause they're sluts doesnt mean you can just abuse them like crazy.

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Originally posted by fredrolin

This thread is getting ridiculous.

 

You obviously have no respect for your girlfriend, or women in general.

 

Sure, fantasies are exciting but come on now, they aren't reality.

 

Seriously wanting someone you love to get screwed by a bunch of horny guys until she can't walk is sickening.

 

There are plenty of sluts out there to use and abuse.

 

 

I understand what you're saying, but thats just the fantasy. I love her with all my heart but I accept her having a bunch of horny guys screwin her until she can't walk, its sickening to you but I'm ok with it. I know one day its eventually going to happen and she will get screwed by a bunch of horny guys. She's already been screwed by 3 guys these past 2 weeks.

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Confissledone:

 

 

My husband and I often play games like your fantasy. But instead of the mall well go to a club or TGi fridays type of place. I'll dress up in something sure to get alot of attention and allways braless (at his request). I'm usually the last one to arrive w/ hubby already inside waiting. Difference is I've actually gone home w/ a man/men on several occations. Other times well just go out and have me put on a show somewhere teasing the hell out of all the guys. Nothing drives men more crazy than a low cut silk blouse & a 10" mini skirt.

You must have a trusting relationship w/ your SO to do stuff like this. So if you and your girl are in tight for the duration just tell her it would just be sex and nothing else. Pure raw sex w/o any emotional attachement is fantastic. Coming home to my husband after just getting ****ed senseless never ever leads to a dull night (or day). ANy thing else I can tell you to help please let me know.

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Originally posted by chrisl

Confissledone:

 

 

My husband and I often play games like your fantasy. But instead of the mall well go to a club or TGi fridays type of place. I'll dress up in something sure to get alot of attention and allways braless (at his request). I'm usually the last one to arrive w/ hubby already inside waiting. Difference is I've actually gone home w/ a man/men on several occations. Other times well just go out and have me put on a show somewhere teasing the hell out of all the guys. Nothing drives men more crazy than a low cut silk blouse & a 10" mini skirt.

You must have a trusting relationship w/ your SO to do stuff like this. So if you and your girl are in tight for the duration just tell her it would just be sex and nothing else. Pure raw sex w/o any emotional attachement is fantastic. Coming home to my husband after just getting ****ed senseless never ever leads to a dull night (or day). ANy thing else I can tell you to help please let me know.

 

Yes I do trust her a lot. Does he let you have several guys? So you've had sex with those other men when you go home with them while your husband just watches you get picked up?

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Yes - to answer your question. We have a bit of an open marriage. I like sex more then he does and have a greater appetite for it. But- I didn't make it out to sound like we do it every week. Maybe a few times a year. I also have a few fb's I see on a regular basis to keep me in check. tell your girl to just go for it. Who knows maybe some of the guys she'll be screwing have girlfriends on the side that are into swinging. That will keep you as busy as she'll be.

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I've been telling her but she thinks its weird, although lately I've been reading to her peoples comments on it from a website, where they tell you how they feel after doing others and the stories on how it happens. She seems to be interested in the stories that other women have to tell about being with other men other than their husbands, and she told me they were interesting, I asked her, wouldn't you like to be in that womans place gettin the pleasure? and she just gets shy. maybe you can talk to her and suggest it to her, since you're a woman I'm assuming, and maybe she'll listen more to a woman.

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It is better to keep it a fantasy. Once its real its different. I did this for my husband and it took us years to get over it. We were both very confused after it. The felings waver on this issue even when the guy thinks he wants it. It was hard on me too. Just keep it a fantasy andmaybe she'll play along.

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I'm probably a little younger than most of you guys, I'm 22 but I am an old hand with this scenario. I'd say I accidentally stumbled upon this fantasy when I was about 16. I cracked into my girlfriend's email address (I know.. what a scumbag, eh?) and inside I found an email from a guy with a picture of himself attached. I could also she the reply she sent him which I can't remember word for word but was definitely something that upset me. I never said a word about it because I was too ashamed of invading her privacy. Later on I found that when I was masturbating I kept thinking back on it and picturing her with him. At first it was the basics... kissing, making out. Then it moved onto oral and then the rest is obvious. As much as it turned me on it also killed me. Ever since then I have this fantasy with every girl I care for. Sometimes it's pleasant, others.... it does not sit with me well at all. After doing a little bit of research and question asking someone pointed me torwards a poem written by a very little known poet. I believe it was titled, "The Shadows Within Man." I can tell you that this fantasy is something I love and something I hate with so much anger I can't explain. I believe I've come to like this fantasy because I am sadistic torwards myself and like hurting myself. Not by physical pain, but emotional pain. It's the only logical solution I can come up with because I obviously dislike it more than I like it. So I lay this advice upon you:

 

If you are fantasizing about watching your girlfriend/wife having sex with other men and you have the SLIGHTEST doubt in your mind... do not go through with it. Keep it a fantasy or forget about it completely because it does nothing but ruins lives. I can't express to you the tormet that will follow. But if you're fine with everything and you feel no regrets then do what you like.

 

For me... this "fantasy" has been like a demon. I realize I have it for self-destruction purposes and that's probably my punishment for sticking my nose where it didn't belong.

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I have a similar fantasy. I have been married for 6 years, and love the idea of my wife screwing other men, and being with women. We talk about it during foreplay, and she likes to think about me with other women also. I love for her to tell me what she would do to some of my friends, and she is the same way about me and her friends.

 

I love to hear about what her ex boyfriends used to do her, and she gets off telling me about it. She doesn''t work, so she is home all day. She tells me how she masturbates thinking about screwing friends of ours.

 

I am seriously doubt we will ever act on this, because I think it would destroy us! But is sure is fun talking about it.

 

I just wonder how many other couples do this same type thing.

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Guys - just go for it. Its just sex. Nothing more. Girls out there too. Just go have your fun. But safe sex fun! Keep feelings and emotions out of it. Just the other day after work I met up w/ one of my fb's who took me out for some drinks then brought me home to his place. He tied me up to his bed and ****ed my brains out twice. He leaves me there blindfolded with cum running all over me until his roommate comes home. I'm then taken by him another two times before being released to go home to my husband. I walk through the door around 2am looking like a rape victim and smelling like a locker room. After cleaning up hubby and me had some super intense sex as I told him all the little nasty details. Granted I was pretty sore the next day but it was worth it. Someday I'll be too old for this kind of activity but memory's last forever.

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Originally posted by chrisl

Guys - just go for it. Its just sex. Nothing more. Girls out there too. Just go have your fun. But safe sex fun! Keep feelings and emotions out of it. Just the other day after work I met up w/ one of my fb's who took me out for some drinks then brought me home to his place. He tied me up to his bed and ****ed my brains out twice. He leaves me there blindfolded with cum running all over me until his roommate comes home. I'm then taken by him another two times before being released to go home to my husband. I walk through the door around 2am looking like a rape victim and smelling like a locker room. After cleaning up hubby and me had some super intense sex as I told him all the little nasty details. Granted I was pretty sore the next day but it was worth it. Someday I'll be too old for this kind of activity but memory's last forever.

 

 

I like the way you think, I like what you do and how you tell your husband. I'd love it if my girl came home one day and told me that she got tied to a bed, blind folded, and f*cked by 2 guys. Now without pressuring herm how can I get her to think like you?

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First off -- she has too really like sex. If she doesn't & is lacking in self confidence it's a lost cause. Just do whatever you can w/ her alone. If your out at a big party/gathering and you get the feeling she's checking out a friend of yours get her somewhat drunk and give your buddy the go ahead to do her. So long as she's knows what she's doing she'll remember it & might have some good memories.

 

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Well, she loves sex, isnt lackin confidence but isnt extremely confident either. I do everything I can with her alone. One thing, I would not like a buddy of mine to do her, if anything I would like for her to get a f*ck buddy or a few of them and after a couple of times that she has been with him/them, her F/B'(s) and I can start to be friends through her. She knows what her liberties are and what she should not do, but as far as that story of you coming home at 2 am lookin like a rape victim, I dont see it happening soon.

 

I know this guy who isnt really like a close friend or anything but he goes to parties every weekend and he knows her and her screen name, do you think I should ask him to invite her to some of the parties and tell him what she's able to do with other guys? Do you think I should give him a call and tell him?

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Get her to go to the parties w/ him but don't lay out ground rules. Just make like he would be doing U a favor by taking her out for the night because your busy working or something. Get her to dress as sexy as possible. EX: braless - spandex pants or a slited skirt sort of stuff. That drives men crazy! I would have he go pantyless at first. That might be a bit much.

 

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Thanks for the reply but the thing is, I dont want her to know that Its my idea. I want her to get invited as I have not suggested , that way things go at her pace...if she knows that I told him to invite her, she'll know that I'm rushing her and I dont want to rush her. All I want is for her to get more into the scene. So I'm probably gonna give him a call and wait for her to tell me shes going to a party. After she tells me, if she does, I'll ask her what she plans on wearing and then I'll suggest something sexier.. I'll keep you updated if anything

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Well, my girlfriend has decided and agreed to become a HotWife (Hot Girlfriend in our case) and is able to date guys other than myself and have sex with them if they approach and she is comfortable in giving herself to them. She already has a guy in mind for her adventure and plans on making him a regular b/f if all goes well. I know many of you will flame but could use some constructive criticism and opinions/comments.

 

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Ok i have read all these posts and Iam a girl so i probably have a different take on things but this all sounds soo crazy to me...

 

I for one could never do that ...and i could never understand how any guy i was with would want me to screw other guys while he knows about it.\

 

I can understand the appeal of a guy knowing his girl is desirable and attarctive but you don't need them to screw someone else to know this...especially since most guys will screw anything with boobs.

 

All i think is that if your guy sees that other guys are interested ..sees other guys checking you out..etc and thus sees you are desirable to others that should be enough in most cases

 

Saying that you want your gf or wife to be screwed so much by another guy that she can't walk clearly states that you see women in general as objects and have very little respect for your realtionship and your partner....and obviously your partner if they follow through.. have litle respect for themselves.

 

If we all did what we thought about all the time the world would be an ugly ugly place....reality is not fantasy!

 

i cannot understand how at some point jealousy does not figure into the equation? What happens is one night your partner fails to come back to you..decides they like it better with someone else?

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Sorry dude but thats not gonna please her. She's used to something slightly bigger than you.

Ps. I'm not tryin to insult or anything but she will simply not go for it.

oh and she's my girlfriend not wifRe.

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Originally posted by Confissledone

Sorry dude but thats not gonna please her. She's used to something slightly bigger than you.

Ps. I'm not tryin to insult or anything but she will simply not go for it.

oh and she's my girlfriend not wifRe.

 

:rolleyes:

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