Star Gazer Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 ...but what's the deal with single women going back to school... Uh, because they want to improve themselves? and claiming they may not have time to date because of that? Because it's true? So what? Shall we go out with you only when it's convenient to you ?? Yes, typically people date when they're available, they don't rearrange their schedules and lives to meet up with strangers. SMH. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 Also, men can be…clingy. What's that got to do with the topic? Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 Yes, typically people date when they're available, they don't rearrange their schedules and lives to meet up with strangers. SMH. They'll have to.....eventually. ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 They'll have to.....eventually. ;-) No, they won't. Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 No, they won't. Then they're better off not online dating until they get done with whatever goals they need to accomplish first. Link to post Share on other sites
Maleficent Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 Then they're better off not online dating until they get done with whatever goals they need to accomplish first. Again, not your decision to make. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 Then they're better off not online dating until they get done with whatever goals they need to accomplish first. So, someone needs to have every single aspect of their life perfect, and have accomplished every single goal, before dating? Ridiculous. You have no goals left for your life, I guess? That's sad. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted June 19, 2013 Author Share Posted June 19, 2013 So, someone needs to have every single aspect of their life perfect, and have accomplished every single goal, before dating? Ridiculous. You have no goals left for your life, I guess? That's sad. I noted before they'd need to finish off at least one goal. I've already obtained my goals of a degree and job...thus makes me able to have time to date. If you don't have time, you MAKE the time. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 I noted before they'd need to finish off at least one goal. I've already obtained my goals of a degree and job...thus makes me able to have time to date. If you don't have time, you MAKE the time. How do you know they don't? They are on OLD for a reason. If they guy is worth the time, they'll make it. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
arthus1 Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 ....are always going back to college and never have time to date,....usually I see it stated in their profile, "Please understand I work, take care of my kids, and go to college FULL time! So I might be available all the time." Funny, I did the college stick, you know, around the age most people should be going to college, but what's the deal with single women going back to school, and claiming they may not have time to date because of that? So what? Shall we go out with you only when it's convenient to you ?? I'm on POF and one profile I came across said that she was a nurse and that she works the graveyard shift and that she slept during the day, WTF? LOL! What she actually expecting to date somebody with that work schedule? I sleep at night lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 I noted before they'd need to finish off at least one goal. I've already obtained my goals of a degree and job...thus makes me able to have time to date. If you don't have time, you MAKE the time. If they're interested in YOU, they will make time. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted June 19, 2013 Author Share Posted June 19, 2013 I'm on POF and one profile I came across said that she was a nurse and that she works the graveyard shift and that she slept during the day, WTF? LOL! What she actually expecting to date somebody with that work schedule? I sleep at night lol. I guess she can date on her days off I suppose. But a dating site is not good for someone who is doing "all of the above" in their life. I've known some women simply to wait for their kids to get to a certain age (old enough to wipe their chins and use a microwave)...and only THEN the mother starts to date. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 I've known some women simply to wait for their kids to get to a certain age (old enough to wipe their chins and use a microwave)...and only THEN the mother starts to date. Yes, I know women that do that, too. Curiously, I don't know any men who do the same. All the single dads I know date, no matter what the age of their kids. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Maleficent Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 I noted before they'd need to finish off at least one goal. I've already obtained my goals of a degree and job...thus makes me able to have time to date. If you don't have time, you MAKE the time. Well, look for someone who has a degree and a job and let women who wish to keep working at bettering themselves alone. Sheesh. Link to post Share on other sites
Maleficent Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 I'm on POF and one profile I came across said that she was a nurse and that she works the graveyard shift and that she slept during the day, WTF? LOL! What she actually expecting to date somebody with that work schedule? I sleep at night lol. Am I reading this right? Sooooooo people who work night shifts don't get to date? too bad for them? It baffles me to see how many men on here still expect women should work their time and schedule around their little needs. Link to post Share on other sites
arthus1 Posted June 19, 2013 Share Posted June 19, 2013 I guess she can date on her days off I suppose. But a dating site is not good for someone who is doing "all of the above" in their life. I've known some women simply to wait for their kids to get to a certain age (old enough to wipe their chins and use a microwave)...and only THEN the mother starts to date. Even on her days off she still has to sleep during the day! Unless she wants to be awake for 48 hours. Not many people work the night shift or is a night owl. Link to post Share on other sites
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