Ways to make yourself more attractive to women

[Sun Devil]

I am looking for ways to improve my attraction level. I already have improved what I wear and my haircut. I also am building muscle and removing body fat. My comversation skills with women have improved, but no one seems interested. I also have greatly expanded my social circle by being in a fraternity and a couple of clubs. What else should I do to improve myself? Any advice, especially one that applies to a short guy?

[Feelin Frisky]

So you're in college? Assert yourself at every turn. Ask for introductions. Let someone play cupid for you. Be ready to act and not over-think when it comes to you.

[TaraMaiden]

Pretend you're gay.

 

Women love gay guys, because they're non-threatening and safe bets to really let their hair down and have a great time with....

 

Don't tell them that you're gay - or not, for that matter.

let them come to that conclusion for themselves....then when they discover you're straight, they'll be on you like a rash....

 

Secretly every girl wants to 'convert' a dishy desirable gay guy into a fellah who prefers women....

 

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

I am looking for ways to improve my attraction level. I already have improved what I wear and my haircut. I also am building muscle and removing body fat. My comversation skills with women have improved, but no one seems interested. I also have greatly expanded my social circle by being in a fraternity and a couple of clubs. What else should I do to improve myself? Any advice, especially one that applies to a short guy?

 

Your main problem is that you're short.

 

Shoe lifts could add 2' - 3'. That's really your only option, barring surgery.

[sillyanswer]

Any advice, especially one that applies to a short guy?

 

Wear heels.

[HotTea]

I am looking for ways to improve my attraction level. I already have improved what I wear and my haircut. I also am building muscle and removing body fat. My comversation skills with women have improved, but no one seems interested. I also have greatly expanded my social circle by being in a fraternity and a couple of clubs. What else should I do to improve myself? Any advice, especially one that applies to a short guy?

 

Love yourself...and I don't mean with your hand.

What attracts you to someone? there's a saying, be what you want to attract...Hope that helps

[JuneJulySeptember]

I am looking for ways to improve my attraction level. I already have improved what I wear and my haircut. I also am building muscle and removing body fat. My comversation skills with women have improved, but no one seems interested. I also have greatly expanded my social circle by being in a fraternity and a couple of clubs. What else should I do to improve myself? Any advice, especially one that applies to a short guy?

 

Here's the thing about improving for women. There's really nothing you can do. I mean, there is, but you are already doing it.

 

You're in school, trying to get a degree, trying to socialize, trying to dress better etc. You're looking for that one magic thing to help turn around your luck with women, and sorry to tell you it doesn't exist.

 

You just have to go out and hit on a sh@tload of them until one says yes. Ask the other struggling guys on here.

[irc333]

Since the OP has tried everything, and nothing as yet to work....time to reach out to performing the ridiculous. LOL

 

Pretend you're gay.

 

Women love gay guys, because they're non-threatening and safe bets to really let their hair down and have a great time with....

 

Don't tell them that you're gay - or not, for that matter.

let them come to that conclusion for themselves....then when they discover you're straight, they'll be on you like a rash....

 

Secretly every girl wants to 'convert' a dishy desirable gay guy into a fellah who prefers women....

 

[irc333]

Here's the thing about improving for women.

 

As far as women having to go about making themselves attractive to men...all they pretty much need to do is show up.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Pretend you're gay.

 

Women love gay guys, because they're non-threatening and safe bets to really let their hair down and have a great time with....

 

Don't tell them that you're gay - or not, for that matter.

let them come to that conclusion for themselves....then when they discover you're straight, they'll be on you like a rash....

 

Secretly every girl wants to 'convert' a dishy desirable gay guy into a fellah who prefers women....

 

 

This is probably the worse advice I've ever heard.

[therhythm]

This is probably the worse advice I've ever heard.

 

I think she wanted to make a funny joke... if not I am totally agree with you... worse advise EVER!

[shexy]

The most important thing is to just be yourself. If you're self conscious about your height, try not to show it.

[Hopeful30]

Be a genteman Hold doors, offer your jacket to random girls who look cold, never let another woman carry her own bag/something heavy

 

Things like that usually catch a woman's eye, especially when she sees him doing it for someone else. I once saw a young man (didn't find him cute) help an old lady carry her groccery bags to her car, he even helped push the cart and asked where her car was. He suddenly became so attractive to me and I couldn't take my eyes off him. There's something so noble about a man like that, especially when he's on a schedule and still offers a helping hand

[Feelin Frisky]

I think she wanted to make a funny joke... if not I am totally agree with you... worse advise EVER!

 

True that. Being accepted as one of the girls is not the objective.

 

My first LTR g/f would throw a fit if I put on a mannerism of that kind even in the course of a joke. Once in a while she would even jump to the wrong conclusion and get an attitude that I didn't abide her. Like driving over the Goethals Bridge into Jersey, I said it was the Gay-thals. Her demeanor went sour. I was just saying that the "oe" in Goethals is pronounced differently from the gah sound that we use. Just harmless blather. But she got a tude and was a hard ass until she came around as usual to realizing she was being an ass. People who talk a lot take a lot of risks of eventually saying imperfect things. Either you like who they are or not. Ya got to take some bad with the good and prioritize. I'm not effeminate, ever. It's dumb to have to be called upon to stop being who you are as a humorist/commentator/satirist on the things you experience. But if she was any indication, woman don't like that in their men. And I never had that come up in other relationships. I wear the pants.

[FitChick]

It's summer. Treat yourself to a pedicure every month. You will love it and your feet won't look disgusting in sandals.

 

See your dentist every six months for a checkup and cleaning.

[EasyHeart]

Smile.

 

When I was in college, I (unconsciously) walked around with a big, stupid smile on my face. When people see you smiling, they instinctively start saying "Hi" to you. The next thing I knew, all these girls were saying Hi to me when I walked between classes or hung out on campus. (And my girlfriend would say, "Who the hell is she!?!?" and be mad at me for a week, but that's another story).

 

Once they're saying Hi to you, it's pretty easy to start a conversation and get to know them.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Be a genteman Hold doors, offer your jacket to random girls who look cold, never let another woman carry her own bag/something heavy

 

Things like that usually catch a woman's eye, especially when she sees him doing it for someone else. I once saw a young man (didn't find him cute) help an old lady carry her groccery bags to her car, he even helped push the cart and asked where her car was. He suddenly became so attractive to me and I couldn't take my eyes off him. There's something so noble about a man like that, especially when he's on a schedule and still offers a helping hand

 

This is the second worst advice I've ever heard.

 

Chivalry is generally seen as a sign of weakness in this society (or, at the very least, it is neutral).

 

OP should do those things if he wants to, but he shouldn't expect to get girls that way.

[Eggplant]

Chivalry is generally seen as a sign of weakness in this society (or, at the very least, it is neutral).

 

OP should do those things if he wants to, but he shouldn't expect to get girls that way.

NOOOOOOOO! Wrong!

 

Well, as a man, you know more about dating women than I. But I run away from the non-chivalrous men. Maybe other women deem it weakness? Perfect, leave the gentlemen to me.

[Sun Devil]

I know that being a pushover is not good, but is being a jerk and treating women like crap also effective? I am planning on experiments when I come back from summer break

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

NOOOOOOOO! Wrong!

 

Well, as a man, you know more about dating women than I. But I run away from the non-chivalrous men. Maybe other women deem it weakness? Perfect, leave the gentlemen to me.

 

I hear this a lot from women online....but never see it in practice in real life.

 

Hmmmm...

[Pompeii]

With the exception of HoneyBadger, this is all lame and terrible advice. This is why I don't accept advice from other people (especially women) because it usually ends up in a trainwreck. You don't need to act gay, you don't need to be chivalrous, you don't need a pedicure (what?).

 

This past weekend I had success with acting like an ******* to girls. Maybe it'll work for you, maybe not. You need something that someone else doesn't have considering you're 5 nothing. What that is, I have no clue.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

I know that being a pushover is not good, but is being a jerk and treating women like crap also effective? I am planning on experiments when I come back from summer break

 

The best ways to get girls:

 

- Be tall

- Be good-looking

- Be an a-hole (this gets their panties wet)

- Have a high social status

 

If you're slightly off on one of these, you should be okay. But if you're too far off on one or missing 2, then dedicate your life towards something else meaningful....because you will not likely have success with women.

[Pompeii]

NOOOOOOOO! Wrong!

 

If chivalry wasn't seen as weak, PUA wouldn't exist.

[Pompeii]

The best ways to get girls:

 

- Be tall

- Be good-looking

- Be an a-hole (this gets their panties wet)

- Have a high social status

 

If you're slightly off on one of these, you should be okay. But if you're too far off on one or missing 2, then dedicate your life towards something else meaningful....because you will not likely have success with women.

 

I believe of those 4, being good looking and status (or percieved status) are the most important. If you have status, EVERYBODY wants you.

[Eggplant]

If chivalry wasn't seen as weak, PUA wouldn't exist.

Pick-up-artists? I don't even understand ... what do pick-up artists have to do with it?