Author AKisBaked Posted June 21, 2013 Author Share Posted June 21, 2013 So this has become my small blog for updates about this girl instead of me posting multiple threads about every little thing that has happened. After my last post and the time spent seeing how I can escalate this girl to go further the distance i've concluded that she is not interested in me. I never told her how I felt about her or have seen her since. But I can tell by just her responses and the way she talks to me now. She shows no interest in me or us becoming anything more than friends. I think it's her way of letting me down gently without having to say anything directly to me or making me feel guilty. She rather have her actions to show me that she isn't interested instead of us talking.... Your all probably thinking, why didn't I say anything to her and just assume that she doesn't have any interest in me. My response to this is because, I already tried to qualify this girl with compliance tests and she failed. When you have a crush or like someone you wouldn't jump the gun and outright say ridiculous things or think its going to go exactly your way. You want to show some interest but also at the same time you want to receive back signs of interest from the other person as well. I wasn't intending to play this qualify / comply test game forever. No. Like i mentioned before a few times about me touching her, even tho she showed no reaction of her being uncomfortable or any hesitation of me touching her she even reciprocated to those gestures. Like me holding her hand she allowed it but its just probably her being friendly towards me and thinks its nothing special. I feel that its better in a way for me to not have to hear it from her and tell me that she only likes me as a "friend" it's already enough and noticeable through the way she talks to me. It's disappointing because she did comply to some things I tested on her and failed the others. Therefore its a result of her not being interested. So much for this girl i guess.. Off to the other one.. Cheers guys. Link to post Share on other sites
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