Keenly Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 It is too much time to have invested in someone to leave with nothing to show for it, I would think. That doesn't make it okay. Those women are selfish. So is anyone who would even consider such a tactic. If you can't respect your mates opinion, you are not mature enough to be dating. This goes from 15-80. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 That doesn't make it okay. Those women are selfish. So is anyone who would even consider such a tactic. If you can't respect your mates opinion, you are not mature enough to be dating. This goes from 15-80. Men should respect that women only have 15 years of good eggs. Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Men should respect that women only have 15 years of good eggs. And women should respect that men have 100% of the say of when they want to have kids, and the woman does NOT get to decide for him if she feels he is not moving fast enough. I don't care what your fertility window is, I decide my fate, not a woman. Any woman who disagrees loses any respect I may have for her. I would tell her to go find a sperm donor. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 And women should respect that men have 100% of the say of when they want to have kids, and the woman does NOT get to decide for him if she feels he is not moving fast enough. I don't care what your fertility window is, I decide my fate, not a woman. Any woman who disagrees loses any respect I may have for her. I would tell her to go find a sperm donor. Well aren't you just a ray of sunshine:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Well aren't you just a ray of sunshine:rolleyes: And aren't you a fantastic trustworthy woman who any man would be lucky to have 1 Link to post Share on other sites
miss_jaclynrae Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Well aren't you just a ray of sunshine:rolleyes: I was expecting something wittier. Do you agree with what he is saying or no? Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 I was expecting something wittier. Do you agree with what he is saying or no? Of course she doesn't. The world exists solely for her and everyone else is only around for her amusement and to fulfill her needs. Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Men should respect that women only have 15 years of good eggs. That doesn't mean that you get to trap them into fatherhood. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 And aren't you a fantastic trustworthy woman who any man would be lucky to have Yes I am thanks haha Link to post Share on other sites
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 I was expecting something wittier. Do you agree with what he is saying or no? I agree but I don't.. I mean yes it is up to him to decide if he wants to have kids but at the same time be considerate don't date someone who wants kids. I mean I personally only date guys with kids or who I know want kids in a reasonable timeframe (unfortunately with the guy I'm with now I'm not so sure but whatever) don't date someone for years and years and not propose or get them pregnant it is just mean and rude. Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 I agree but I don't.. I mean yes it is up to him to decide if he wants to have kids but at the same time be considerate don't date someone who wants kids. I mean I personally only date guys with kids or who I know want kids in a reasonable timeframe (unfortunately with the guy I'm with now I'm not so sure but whatever) don't date someone for years and years and not propose or get them pregnant it is just mean and rude. A few things. 1. You are being a hypocrite. 2. People can do whatever they want, either deal with it or leave. You do not get to make choices for other people. 3. Don't date some one who doesn't want to get married or have kids. It's a two way street. 4. Commitment is whatever people make of it. Personally, if I am with you in a relationship, I view that as commitment. I don't care if 2 years has gone by, I am still committed. Marriage is not a time frame based institution. 5. Desperation drives men away like nothing else. 6. If some one is not ready, THEY ARE NOT READY. 3. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 (edited) A few things. 1. You are being a hypocrite. 2. People can do whatever they want, either deal with it or leave. You do not get to make choices for other people. 3. Don't date some one who doesn't want to get married or have kids. It's a two way street. 4. Commitment is whatever people make of it. Personally, if I am with you in a relationship, I view that as commitment. I don't care if 2 years has gone by, I am still committed. Marriage is not a time frame based institution. 5. Desperation drives men away like nothing else. 6. If some one is not ready, THEY ARE NOT READY. 3. Well they need to hurry and get ready. Anyways I don't care anymore, I hope I am never with someone who is undecided about kids.. I probably wouldn't be solely because I ask or hint around to find out their feelings about kids first. Edited June 18, 2013 by ImperfectionisBeauty Link to post Share on other sites
miss_jaclynrae Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 I agree but I don't.. I mean yes it is up to him to decide if he wants to have kids but at the same time be considerate don't date someone who wants kids. I mean I personally only date guys with kids or who I know want kids in a reasonable timeframe (unfortunately with the guy I'm with now I'm not so sure but whatever) don't date someone for years and years and not propose or get them pregnant it is just mean and rude. Well they need to hurry and get ready. Anyways I don't care anymore, I hope I am never with someone who is undecided about kids.. I probably wouldn't be solely because I ask or hint around to find out their feelings about kids first. Better find out quick! Link to post Share on other sites
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