LilGirlandOW Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Any chance in some cases its almost a sexual perversion? lol Like if he's in his 40's, and I'm in my early 30's but cant buy a lighter without being carded, I'm just really short and young looking, and one of his nicknames for me is "My little girl". Has the thought ever been tossed around that in some way these older men have some kinda sexual perversion for young girls? Like I could pass as a highschool student all day, not saying this is the case, or even if it is its wrong cause we're all grown adults. just wondering?! Link to post Share on other sites
sweet_pea Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Could be. I've also noticed that sometimes when the MP is older than the OP, the MP is going through a Mid-life crisis sort of thing. Like they're trying to regain/relive their youth by having an affair with a younger person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LilGirlandOW Posted June 17, 2013 Author Share Posted June 17, 2013 somewhat yeah, I could pass for 16 and he like 50 easily, i do love him with all my heart Link to post Share on other sites
Lillyfree Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 sounds like your A is a true, deep love story. i think my stomach just turned a little Link to post Share on other sites
Author LilGirlandOW Posted June 17, 2013 Author Share Posted June 17, 2013 lol i think he's very good looking, just mature looking, is all.. He calls me other names like "baby" or "babe" or "love", but "my little girl" is his go to, Link to post Share on other sites
Mount Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 What do you want to achieve here, do you want to be with him permanently? or just content to be the mistress. I am late 30s, the MM the very end of 50's.... Any chance in some cases its almost a sexual perversion? lol Like if he's in his 40's, and I'm in my early 30's but cant buy a lighter without being carded, I'm just really short and young looking, and one of his nicknames for me is "My little girl". Has the thought ever been tossed around that in some way these older men have some kinda sexual perversion for young girls? Like I could pass as a highschool student all day, not saying this is the case, or even if it is its wrong cause we're all grown adults. just wondering?! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LilGirlandOW Posted June 17, 2013 Author Share Posted June 17, 2013 i've never spent anytime until tonight even with that thought crossing my mind,,, tonight i sat by a campfire in my yard with a joint (no i dont smoke all the time, first in years) and sometime getting stoned you just tie strings in your mind,,, mostly unnecesarily.. Just thought I'd drum up thoughts about that, if I thought my MM was a pervert like that or "old and ugly", I wouldnt be so addicted to him and in love with him Link to post Share on other sites
Author LilGirlandOW Posted June 17, 2013 Author Share Posted June 17, 2013 There are days I want him to be mine forever, than there are days I wouldnt wanna deal with the aftermath of his seperation and hope for a dday, I know at this point, yes i do love him, but also, I'm addicted to him... Link to post Share on other sites
wanting more Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 He called me babe, I'm in my late 30s, he early 50s. Personally I would've freaked out had he ever called me "his little girl". That's kinda like a girl I used to work with whose bf called himself "daddy". Couldn't deal with either one myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mount Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 How long have you been in this relationship with MM yet? Your thoughts are unhealthy and do you harm...You want to see the result, you need get the "fast and furious" to the upcoming result. If he wants to be with you, he will be with you. Otherwise you will feel damaged if you let him or you let yourself being strung along. There are days I want him to be mine forever, than there are days I wouldnt wanna deal with the aftermath of his seperation and hope for a dday, I know at this point, yes i do love him, but also, I'm addicted to him... Link to post Share on other sites
sweet_pea Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 "Babe" and "Baby" are pretty normal terms of endearment, I think. However, calling you a "little girl" is definitely strange. The only times I've heard a grown man calling another grown woman that, are those interested in a certain kind of fetish/roleplay... Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Any chance in some cases its almost a sexual perversion? lol Like if he's in his 40's, and I'm in my early 30's but cant buy a lighter without being carded, I'm just really short and young looking, and one of his nicknames for me is "My little girl". Has the thought ever been tossed around that in some way these older men have some kinda sexual perversion for young girls? Like I could pass as a highschool student all day, not saying this is the case, or even if it is its wrong cause we're all grown adults. just wondering?! Some do. It's a "thing." It would creep me out personally. I don't call any man "daddy" besides my dad, for example, because that weird fatherly dynamic grosses me out and anything which resembles it. I would not appreciate being called a man's "little girl" . But he may very well be into that kind of thing. You can ask him...he may not be shy to admit it. Link to post Share on other sites
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