Turtles Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Nothing has happened. Nothing has changed. No moves have been made. Just a lot of talking. We met up a few times... Trying to come to some resolution... Make some sort of action plan... But nothing. He has been honest in asking that I be a little patient.. He isn't evil. He isn't purposely doing this. He's just f'ed up. .... He said he is still going to separate. He says he honestly doesn't know why he hasn't done it.... Whatever.... To top it off... His anniversary is this weekend. Talk about losing my f'ing mind over here. I honestly don't understand what a man could have to still make him attractive when he has shown himself to be so spineless. They must have a DAMN good game. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 I honestly don't understand what a man could have to still make him attractive when he has shown himself to be so spineless. They must have a DAMN good game. Yep some of these MM know how to manipulate. Until this is seen and understood by either party (BS or OW) they continue to suck everyone dry. Emotional Vampires and Narcissists they are Link to post Share on other sites
Praying4Peace Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Really? Delusional? There were a lot of assumptions going the other direction to. Assumptions that IM cannot know for sure and can really only go on his word ,which at this point has no backing. It is established that MM can lie. Why wouldn't he to save his skin? Is it better for IM to keep telling herself he feels one way or the other? In the mean time he has still not left. Even if his BS is this deluusional doormat ,he hasn't left. Coulda ,Woulda ,Shoulda. Why is it expected that the BS has to pull the plug on the marriage? The BS has to make a decision the MM cannot? Why? The WS has just as much power to do so and apparently more reason with the love of his life on the other side..right? BS has a much longer history with WS and I am sure he knows just what to say and do to manipulate her just as he has been doing in his affair with IM. It's not fair to anyone and it sucks but calling the BS delusional for believing her WS isn't saying much for the AP that believes their MP. Why is one delusional and the other the adored? Both women are being mislead here in some kind of way. He is misrepresenting the facts to these women and it's not right. Because its been established on this thread that he is 'bat**** crazy' and his words mean nothing, that's why. Link to post Share on other sites
Journee Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Because its been established on this thread that he is 'bat**** crazy' and his words mean nothing, that's why. If that is the case then IM should not give a rats bottom about him. But she does ,because she loves him and it's hard to let go sometimes whether you are OW or BS. That is my point. No right or wrong just that don't expect ANYONE to act rationally in and irrational situation. EVERYONE hurts and is confused and may not know what they want. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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