Found out bf used prostitutes when we first dated

[BradJacobs]

Can a man with with a vast history of casual sex ever be happy in a monogamous relationship?

The only question that you need to answer for yourself is whether or not you can forgive him. Because if you can't then you will just make both he and you miserable. If you can, then you need to ask those other questions because they are ancillary to whether or not you can forgive.

 

Assuming that you can, the answer to your question depends on the type of man that he is and the one that you believe him to be.

 

Best of luck!

[KathyM]

A man who cheats on you when he has promised to be exclusive with you is not a man who can be trusted. It is not a man who is relationship material. It is a man who puts his desires ahead of his partner and his relationship, and a man who has poor integrity. Not a man you can trust.