Hyacin Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 I am in the process of a separation/divorce as many others here, well a week into it. I found this website quite engaging and a place to get things of my chest. However i guess everything has its bad sides huh? If you are like me, you are probably desperate and wanting to know what people think about your situation. Well, unfortunately there are many people here who have turned themselves into love doctors but lacks the "wisdom" to properly do so. No offense to anyone. This is a vulnerable period for you and your absorption of words and advice is very crucial. Take everything you hear with a pinch of salt. I found that a good long cry helped start the healing process. Every time i found myself thinking about him, I went to pinterest or an interesting website to read something. Think about this...the more pathetic you look, the more confidence you give your partner. I intend for him to see me and wonder if he was married to the same person (in a good way) I am going to pamper myself, look good and start making new friends here and there. There is someone out there who would love you to bits but you have to wipe those tears, pick up the pieces and walk. Life will always hand you something of this sort to deal with. How you deal with it, tells who you are. Link to post Share on other sites
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