seductress989 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Hey, everyone! I know this is kinda off-topic but it has to do w/my ex somewhat. I started NC on Sept. 26 and have only seen him once since then and that was to tell him that I was never seeing him again. On the following Friday, I receive two blank text messages on my phone. Now someone please tell me: can you actually send someone a blank text message or is it the phone company screwing around with you? My curiousity is about to kill me. BTW, I'm w/Alltel. Thanx for any responses. Link to post Share on other sites
snilljente Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 I don't think you can send blank text messages unless you intend to do just that...and I think he is just messing with you......Who broke up....? If he wants to talk to you, he should have the courage to do it the right way and not be so childish as to send blank messages....wait and see what he does next is my advice...without knowing more about your situation. Link to post Share on other sites
bluetuesday Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 you can absolutely send blank texts on my network (vodafone). and i just spent 12p on you to prove it. oh that's ok, you're worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author seductress989 Posted October 14, 2004 Author Share Posted October 14, 2004 BTW, I broke up w/him 4 months ago but we've just quit talking recently. I decided to start NC on Sept. 26 and on the the 8th of October I receive 2 blank messages. It was Friday nite, that is why I suspected him. So, do you think it was him sending them? He never calls me or anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 do you want him to contact you or did you truly mean it when you told him you didn't want to see him again? Link to post Share on other sites
snilljente Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 You should be able to see the number the messages came from on your phone...was it late Friday night? Maybe he had been drinking...just a thought..I used to do this alot...get drunk and then text someone I missed....not blank messages, but messages.....it got bad..had to start leaving my phone at home, he he.....and yes, do you really want NC..it sounds like you are confused about this..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author seductress989 Posted October 15, 2004 Author Share Posted October 15, 2004 Thanx for the replies! You guys are so helpful here even over the smallest things. Anyways, I am confused about NC b/c I still love him a lot and miss him. I know he is going through a rough time right now and it kills me not to talk to him. The messages were around 8 p.m. on Friday. I know for a fact that he works on Friday and is off and Mon. and Tues. The messages didn't have a return #. They were just blank w/ MY number as the callback number. I don't think the phone company can send you a blank txt, can they? In a way, I would be thrilled for him to contact me b/c I know that I hurt him bad when I told him that I never wanted to see him again. He was visibly hurt, hung his head down and walked off w/his eyes watering. I tried to touch his arm and he said, "Don't touch me!" and bolted out of my car. I met him for break at work and we rode around and I discussed my reasoning for NC. That was the last time we spoke. We live in different towns so we rarely see each other. If we do see each other, it's only meeting each other on the road but no more than that. I would like to see him again but not as friends. I've finally realized that I can't just be friends w/him even though I ended it. Ironic, huh? I know it doesn't make sense. But I'm dying to know if he txted me or not and what I should do. All help will be greatly appreciated. Thanx guys. Link to post Share on other sites
snilljente Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 So, I am confused..why did you break up with him to begin with if you still want to be more than friends....? Link to post Share on other sites
Author seductress989 Posted October 15, 2004 Author Share Posted October 15, 2004 Remember, snill, it was 4 months since I've broke up with him. Now, I realize that I can't just be friends with him. That's why I started NC. I know that I love him, but I don't believe that he feels the same. I just wanna know if he txted me or not. Link to post Share on other sites
snilljente Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Well, if he does love you and want to get back together, he will contact you beyond sending blank messages...so you can either straight out contact him and ask him if he wants to get back together (since you broke it off) or you can just wait and see if he contacts you for real.... Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 whoa whoa whoa....you broke up with him and you now want to get back together with him and you are waiting for him to contact you? YOU BROKE IT OFF. You can contact him since you ended it in the first place. My advice...don't play that silly mickey mouse type mind game. Why wait on something you can easily do (contact) yourself? It is stubborn and screams of too much pride. Just call the guy and see what's up. BTW, most of us have done that type of game and it is silly. Seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
backspn Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 True Weird. She broke up with me and she still calls me. But I dont have pride and I dont play stupid games. Tonight I start NC for a while(I would say a month but it might be longer) and last night we talked. I let everything out on the table. She always makes me feel like I never did anything for her when we were together. She told me that is was the best when we were together but that you cant force something now if she is not in love with me. I had to get it out and let her know how I feel before the NC begins. I am not telling her that I am starting the NC because I want her to worry about us.....I want her to worry that she is losing me for good. I know she still cares for me deeply....and that is always a basis for the spark rekindling. Seductress....like I told you earlier....just call him and tell him how you feel and lay everything out on the table. Drop your pride...it has never done anyone any good before. If you love him......have faith in it and take the leap. What else do you have to lose? Link to post Share on other sites
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