Any Over 50 OW here?

[oldshirt]

Hey old shirt, I didn't miss the irony that my wife is an Over 50, highly doubtful she is an OW, maybe if she was she would be a little more enjoyable. She is sexual exactly the same way, every time with little to no devation in routine or process, any devation is not tolerated. Also I would hope that once the dust setteles we would be friends. We have children that will always bind us. Thanks for your reply.

 

I'm really not trying to be ironic or trying to get some backhanded digs. I am being honest and serious. I get that she may be a sexual dud with you. But it is a God's honest fact that there are tons of wives (and husbands for that matter) who's spouse thinks they are a sexual dud and completely asexual and uninterested in sex and are completely blindsided and blown away when they found out that their asexual spouse was having wild, uninhibited, passionate porno sex with someone else.

 

That's the real painful part of it, it turns out it wasn't that they weren't sexually responsive or interested in sex, it was that they weren't responsive and interested in sex WITH THEM!

 

If a woman is no longer sexually attracted to or desiring her husband, she will be a dud in bed with him and will not want any variety or adventure or passion and will only want to get it over with as quickly, easily and efficiently as possible so they can get back to watching the Kardashians.

 

Those husbands are then completely floored when learn that she is doing anal sex, oral sex, swallowing, facials etc etc with her AP.

 

She either knows of your escapades and is just tolerating it to maintain her house and lifestyle and for family stability or there is also the possibility that she thinks YOU are the uninspired, asexual dud in bed.

 

You two have just lost so much connection and chemistry that both of you probably think the other has lost all their mojo and all of your passions and sense of adventure is being spent on either people and not each other.

 

Happens all the time to millions of people the whole world over but it's still sad