SimonSerenade Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 I agree with you and I think he will lose a lot of his self respect for this but it won't matter to him, he feels he owes it to himself to do this, I have a bad feeling she will hurt him but I have a feeling she'll see him for the good he's doing, drop the other guy and put effort in to work on there problems, I feel bad for the other guy but they were together for 7 years and that's a lot to throw away without fighting for it before hand, I have my fingers crossed for him because he genuinely sounds like a great guy, whatever happens I'll support him, if he wants to go back to her and do this, I'll support him and if it all falls apart I'll support him then too, he speaks very highly of her, maybe she deserves the praise, maybe she doesn't but he has faith in her and I'm sure nobody knows her better than he does, I just hope she repays him for that faith. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 Wow - she's got you whipped, huh? If a guy flash-mobbed me, I would kill him and then myself. It's embarrassingly over the top! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BeholdtheMan Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 OP ain't coming back. He's too busy organising that flash mob 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 I agree with a lot of what people are saying on here but ultimately its something he feels he has to do and if he does it and it doesn't work out then at least he can say he tried, if I was in his boat I would do the same thing and I know a lot of people reading this would to, you have to take risks and take chances and if there's a chance this man can reconcile and start fresh then good on him. I by no means condone cheating or any of what she did afterwards but just because she did that, it doesn't make her a bad person, it could just mean that she's made some bad choices, it looks like he's already figured out how to separate the 2, people make mistakes, that's just life, you forgive and move on, good luck man, let us all know how it turns out for you. F--k all that. Cheating is despicable. Link to post Share on other sites
SimonSerenade Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 I'd never take back a cheater let alone give them the time of day afterwards but I can understand why some do, as soon as someone I love has been with someone else wether it's with or without me, it's over for good, simple as that but this guy ain't me so I wish him the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 I'd never take back a cheater let alone give them the time of day afterwards but I can understand why some do, as soon as someone I love has been with someone else wether it's with or without me, it's over for good, simple as that but this guy ain't me so I wish him the best. I wish him the best as well, but I'm not going to tell him to jump out of an airplane without a parachute because he thinks it feels right. Link to post Share on other sites
MrWombat Posted June 26, 2013 Share Posted June 26, 2013 I made the mistakes though Million. I truly did. I ignored her, neglected her and didn't have the respect for her that I should had. Bull. Those are the excuses that she made. Who decides what constitutes "ignoring her". Who decides what counts as "neglect"? Who decides just exactly how much "respect" she is entitled to? She does. Your whole "relationship" was conducted entirely, 100% on her terms, and she left you when she got bored with it. Maybe you are entitled to some respect? Just tossing the idea out there. Get your promotion. Make money. Never give this person - or anyone like her - a second glance. Link to post Share on other sites
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