bebe121 Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Hi Guys, Don't know how to start this, but here goes. I have a female friend I'll call Sam. I have known Sam for about 4yrs we had a bit of a bad patch for about 9months, but now we seem to be getting on really well and seem very close. This is just a friendship thing nothing more, I like to think we are very good friends but sometimes I don't know if I'm going abit over board. Because I'm a very soft -hearted type of guy, especially with my very close friends be them male or female. I don't have a problem telling my best mate (male) I love him and he's the same with me. Our nick-name for each other is bro. He's an ex rugby guy and I'm an ex boxer by the way. Anyway I digress. I would go over on a morning and talk to Sam, one day Sam said she had a sore back due to her been very sporty, so I rubbed it for a min or 2. She seemed to like this, saying don't stop, so from that time on I would go over and have a chat and she would ask me to massage her back also her neck & head. Now she doesn't even ask I do it automatically. My male friend thinks I'm going too far and he thinks I look stupid doing this, but I'm not sure if he just wants my attention.This gives fuel to our work-mates who make rude remarks, which we both ignore. Hope all this makes sense. When I'm bored at home I would send my friends some daft soppy txt messages, I have also told Sam I feel the same way about her as I do my rugby friend. We are both in a relationship she has a boyfriend and I have been happily married for 23 yrs, and am still happy. So girls am I been too soft and showing my feelings or doesn't this matter. Many thanks in advance bebe121 Link to post Share on other sites
Dakini Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Originally posted by bebe121 We are both in a relationship she has a boyfriend and I have been happily married for 23 yrs, and am still happy. bebe121 Hands off, buddy! Link to post Share on other sites
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