Sweetness Posted December 20, 2000 Share Posted December 20, 2000 hi everyone - i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. i love him very very much and we have a very strong relationship. He wants to have anal sex. i don;t have a problem with that but before i do, i'd like to know the good and the bad on trying this out. the good feelings and the bad. is it messy? i know to use alot of lube and to stay relaxed. can anyone give me some info. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Balaxis Posted December 20, 2000 Share Posted December 20, 2000 My vote here is don't mostly cause you don't want to and he should respect you for that but then again you might enjoy it and change your opinion as for the physicallity anal sex is at first painful it stretches your rectum and that is an uncomfortable feeling to say the least but some women tend to orgasm from it as well as regular sex depending on your age height weight and his size and both your skill and learning abilities it can be an extremely painful experience or a very enjoyable one If he's going to hinge the relationship on anal sex I'm sorry but he isn't worth it cause all he'll ever want is sex not so much the person enough of my ramblings don't have anal sex if you feel you don't want to it is your body you have control of it though my philosophy is try it if you don't like it don't do it again I would never recommend that philosophy to anyone I wish you the best in your relationship *hugs* Link to post Share on other sites
funny Posted December 21, 2000 Share Posted December 21, 2000 A friend of mine once said: My girlfriend recently asked if I would be interested in anal sex. I told her whilst your pussy is functional there is no way I'm going there. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 21, 2000 Share Posted December 21, 2000 A lot of my lady friends seem to get it up the butt whether they ask for it or not. What a shame. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle Posted December 21, 2000 Share Posted December 21, 2000 From a man's point of view I'm sure it will only enhance their pleasure. However, having tried it twice, I can tell you it was absolutely the most painful and miserable experience of my life. I was actually crying through one of the experiences, but kept quiet, because I was embarassed. I loved my partner, and thought I could get through it once. However, I will NEVER do it again. If you do, I think there are creams that will numb the area temporarily(available through catalogs, etc). You may want to try that if you decide to go through with it. Link to post Share on other sites
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