GF cheating on me.

[rajan239]

I am having a affair with a girl who is also my colleague for the past 2 years..

About six months back i read a message in her facebook profile in which she had messaged a guy "I hate you" and nothing else. I never asked her about that neither i had ever seen or heard about that guy before. Last month i was going through the message box of her mobile. When i opened the first message she had sent a sms to someone that "u don't love me" and there were 5-6 more messages to that person which i could not read as she grabbed the mobile from my hands and deleted them. Later i asked her the explanation and she replied that she has not sent those sms. My cousin had borrowed my mobile and she had sent them. She already knew about the messages as she got nervous when i took her mobile. Neither she told me about the content of the messages.

Yesterday we were to go somewhere after office as she has been insisting but when we were supposed to go she called me and said we go tomorrow as she has urgent work at home. I said ok and left the office and suddenly i saw the same facebook guy entering our office. I went back to my GF's cabin and saw both of them sitting there. She was nervous to see me back. Next day i asked her about the guy and she said that he is a cousin of her. And for the past few months i have noticed that she calls me very less and most of the times i call, her phone is busy.

Now please suggest me that is she cheating on me or not.

[Lansing]

Why do you say you are having an "Affair"... I.e. you are married? or is that just a language issue and you meant relationship?

 

It really doesn't sound good... you are snooping on her, you don't trust her regardless of what is actually happening.. She is busy at work but having her "cousin" visit her... Sounds like you should just forget her, let her contact you and explain herself otherwise don't bother anymore.

[Jat Boy]

She should have told you if he was really her cousin. I also think she is cheating on you..