Salacious details within – Sex, Lies, and Audiotape! Did she cheat? Opinion needed!

[aliveagain]

Something must of happened between you before, your boyfriend leaves you get out of bed, he points at it and you give him a BJ? You don't move that fast unless you are comfortable with each other. Have you had sex with him before?

[E050822]

And, a blowjob isn't sex to you?

 

Why did you do that?

 

If it was you - it seems that was a usual routine for the cousin - he called you in to be serviced - and you just went without any words?

 

It wasn't intercourse. I suppose it was a spur of the moment decision. I didn't say anything because he made a "hush" motion after he said "look at me".

 

I'm not happy that I did what I did...that's why I tried to cover it up for so long.

[E050822]

Something must of happened between you before, your boyfriend leaves you get out of bed, he points at it and you give him a BJ? You don't move that fast unless you are comfortable with each other. Have you had sex with him before?

 

No, that's never happened.

[beach]

It wasn't intercourse. I suppose it was a spur of the moment decision. I didn't say anything because he made a "hush" motion after he said "look at me".

 

I'm not happy that I did what I did...that's why I tried to cover it up for so long.

 

Both of you have a LOT of soul searching to do on your own.

 

I hope you will seek individual counseling.

 

I don't believe it was a first time. It was too easy for him. No man does that without KNOWING he has a willing participant!

 

And I don't believe it was a bj - the tape sounds like sex breathing from both partners.

 

At the end you stated "oh God, thank you". That was clear.

 

You're just sorry you got caught.

 

What you call love is just sickening.

Edited July 6, 2013 by beach

[beach]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for approximately seven months, and I have ALWAYS been faithful to him. From the very first night we met, even before entering into a relationship, I knew that he was the man I wanted to be involved with, and I would not do anything to jeopardize what we have. When he first approached me with this evidence, I even volunteered to take a polygraph examination to prove that I was indeed telling him the truth…a polygraph test that I passed with flying colors because I have nothing to hide from him. Unfortunately, despite my telling him hundreds, if not thousands of times that I did not do anything with his cousin, and passing the polygraph test, he still has a hard time believing that I did not cheat on him. Does anyone have any advice they can offer to help us through this difficult time?

 

This was your first post.

 

Lots of effort went in to your lies.

 

I don't see how he could possibly trust you ever again.

[aliveagain]

If you didn't have intercourse why do you thank him, for the pleasure of blowing him? Did he go downtown on you? Is this more of your kind of truth?

Edited July 6, 2013 by aliveagain

[beach]

I'm sure it was intercourse.

 

The sounds are of quiet sex. Spanking and sounded like his balls slapping against someone (as in doggy style) - which would make sense... Maybe your face was in a pillow so he could keep you quiet - and that's why you couldn't breathe.

 

If he was behind - it makes sense that it was easy for him to deal with his phone going off.

 

But you went - and went without ANY prodding - never, ever did you say "NO" - and THAT only happens that way when you done it before.

 

It was planned.

 

How convenient that he is generous enough to take your kids to school and you repay him by having sex with his shady cousin.

[beach]

And how did you beat the polygraph?

 

Are you that good of a liar that you believe your own lies?

[E050822]

If you didn't have intercourse why do you thank him, for the pleasure of blowing him? Did he go downtown on you? Is this more of your kind of truth?

 

I never thanked him for anything...that was later in the audio, probably when he was flying solo to the porno in the living room. He didn't do anything of a sexual nature to me...just got what he was after and then went out into the living room.

[beach]

You did say it. It's one of the easier things to hear on the audio.

 

It's clear "oh god, thank you" THAT is only said after a man delivers an orgasm to a gal. You two had penetrative sex.

 

No woman would thank the man if SHE was only giving HIM a blowjob! No way is your story believable!

[aliveagain]

Are you saying you blew him than he jacked off to a porno?

[beach]

Are you saying you blew him than he jacked off to a porno?

 

How would she know that unless she watched?

[aliveagain]

How many guys jack off after a blow job with a willing woman watching him pull it? Are you real?

[Trimmer]

No, that's never happened.

OK, yeah, now I believe you.

[drifter777]

You can't go on without telling us:

 

a) how you beat the poly

 

b) how you knew you would beat the poly

[Divasu]

Just want to let everyone who has posted their thoughts and opinions on here know that I confessed to B tonight and came clean about what he heard on the audio. We are going to work on it and continue with the counseling sessions so that he can trust me again. I made a huge mistake in doing what I did, and I am grateful that he is willing to give me a second chance.

 

Counseling sessions won't really help a sociopathic personality.

 

Personally, I don't believe this thread is real, at all. And if it is, then my above statement applies...

[BreatheForABit]

Is this real?

 

Unfortunately, yes. Did you not listen to the audio? I didn't just make that up, it's there.

 

So I know that there is more going on than what has already been admitted. Why would M blare the TV in the second 30:19 of the audio? The only plausible reason is to mask G's moans while he finishes up in our bedroom. Listen to it, tell me how long it is between when M blares the TV, walks over to the bedroom, closes the door (the lock clicking is clearly audible even over the blaring TV) and when he emerges from the bedroom (lock clicks unlocked). It's about 2 minutes, which is pitiful in my book. But that's M for you!

 

I forgive G, even seeing how long she will drag things out and even go and make me spend $500+ on a polygraph, and possibly make me spend $2,000+ on audio enhancement when it was already obvious what happened. I'm truly a nice and understanding guy, and I know many of you would have just dumped her without further ado, but I do love her even though she made a mistake or two. I guess nice guys do finish last:(

[IHateHypocrites]

Yes, that's what I did.

 

Talk about a twist. 16 pages later... :rolleyes:

 

Since a woman in question is such an accomplished liar, if OP wants to stay with her, I suggest interpreting everything she says as an opposite from now on.

 

Personally, I wouldn't bother with this crap. Sole mental images of your gf blowing your cousin is more than enough for me to decide. But to each their own.

[aliveagain]

Why would he whack off after she just gave him oral sex, according to her she didn't screw him so he puts on a porn and proceeds to do himself while she sits there watching him? If she already crossed the line by blowing him, why would she stop at that and not let him finish in her doggy style like someone suggested already. Do you believe that? All he had to do was say "look at me" and she's hitting it like Linda Lovelace, no kissing, no sweat words he just pulls it out and "bam". Who says Oh My God Thank You unless she just had an amazing orgasm? If she did this to you now, guess what she will do to you later when some of the newness of your relationship has worn off?

[aliveagain]

Just a few more points you should think about before you decide your future with this girl.

 

1. She can lie and beat a polygraph, how will you ever know you have truth from her, ever?

2. The very first time you ever leave her alone with a man, family or not, she has his dick in her mouth in less than 15 minutes from the time the door shut behind you.

3. She will f**k your own family member.

4. She didn't use protection(you would have heard the wrapper being opened and the snapping of the rubber being put on), so every hooker your cousin f**ked so did you, get tested, tell your doctor why so he can test for all STD's. Some don't show up for 6-12 months after the event. Do not have sex with her until you do.

5. She lied to you, and thousands of people on this site, it was like she played us all, this is who you want in your life, this is the best you can do?

[AlexDP]

You can't go on without telling us:

 

a) how you beat the poly

 

b) how you knew you would beat the poly

 

 

Because the poly is a **** piece of machine that should never be considered appropriate for the gathering of evidence? It means nothing. You just want there to be some magical way of knowing people lie.

[beach]

Unfortunately, yes. Did you not listen to the audio? I didn't just make that up, it's there.

 

So I know that there is more going on than what has already been admitted. Why would M blare the TV in the second 30:19 of the audio? The only plausible reason is to mask G's moans while he finishes up in our bedroom. Listen to it, tell me how long it is between when M blares the TV, walks over to the bedroom, closes the door (the lock clicking is clearly audible even over the blaring TV) and when he emerges from the bedroom (lock clicks unlocked). It's about 2 minutes, which is pitiful in my book. But that's M for you!

 

I forgive G, even seeing how long she will drag things out and even go and make me spend $500+ on a polygraph, and possibly make me spend $2,000+ on audio enhancement when it was already obvious what happened. I'm truly a nice and understanding guy, and I know many of you would have just dumped her without further ado, but I do love her even though she made a mistake or two. I guess nice guys do finish last:(

 

While you're at the counselor - please work on your lack of boundaries for yourself.

 

No one can help you when you "forgive" so easily and without merit, consequences to her and no evidence that she's a changed person on the inside.

 

You've just given her freedom to walk all over you!

 

So - you now have a VERY unhealthy union (I won't even call it a relationship!) built on no respect and no trust!

 

Good luck.

[AlexDP]

Unfortunately, yes. Did you not listen to the audio? I didn't just make that up, it's there.

 

So I know that there is more going on than what has already been admitted. Why would M blare the TV in the second 30:19 of the audio? The only plausible reason is to mask G's moans while he finishes up in our bedroom. Listen to it, tell me how long it is between when M blares the TV, walks over to the bedroom, closes the door (the lock clicking is clearly audible even over the blaring TV) and when he emerges from the bedroom (lock clicks unlocked). It's about 2 minutes, which is pitiful in my book. But that's M for you!

 

I forgive G, even seeing how long she will drag things out and even go and make me spend $500+ on a polygraph, and possibly make me spend $2,000+ on audio enhancement when it was already obvious what happened. I'm truly a nice and understanding guy, and I know many of you would have just dumped her without further ado, but I do love her even though she made a mistake or two. I guess nice guys do finish last:(

 

 

 

I've got a friend who is still a virgin. He's also never had a blowjob. His birthday is coming up. Can I borrow your girlfriend? I'm sure he would like her pretty little lips around his cock.

[aliveagain]

They say that the only people that can beat a polygraph are people that lie habitually regardless of the reason. These are people that won't register biological stress indicators, they feel little or no guilt about deceiving others. We are talking about true sociopaths, emotional parasites, they have no conscience, you can do very little to change who they are, they are as close to a lost cause as you can get, you can not motivate them to change. You are advised to avoid this type of person, they are very destructive. Have you talked to her ex as to why she is his ex? If she is a sociopath or psychopath this would explain her lack of any hesitation to F**k him within minutes of your leaving with her child.

[E050822]

They say that the only people that can beat a polygraph are people that lie habitually regardless of the reason. These are people that won't register biological stress indicators, they feel little or no guilt about deceiving others. We are talking about true sociopaths, emotional parasites, they have no conscience, you can do very little to change who they are, they are as close to a lost cause as you can get, you can not motivate them to change. You are advised to avoid this type of person, they are very destructive. Have you talked to her ex as to why she is his ex? If she is a sociopath or psychopath this would explain her lack of any hesitation to F**k him within minutes of your leaving with her child.

 

 

My ex is my ex because it was MY decision to leave, not his. If B wanted to talk to him, he'd have to track him down in whatever prison he is currently in.