Salacious details within – Sex, Lies, and Audiotape! Did she cheat? Opinion needed!

[aliveagain]

Here is what I picked up.

18:45 woman sighs

19:28 him....just cut it

22:39 woman, put your hands inside(maybe movie)

27:09-2713 woman, ah ah aaaaa orgasm

27:26 small child, mommy, sound goes off until 27:36 as if someone is listening

28:20 sound of slap

28:21 woman, orgasm sound oh, oh, oh man another slap

28:37 small child, mommy I don't wanna go.....something

28:45 woman long sigh

29:10 woman, oh my God thank you, not same voice as tv

 

Had he called a hooker you would have herd her ask for her money, they don't pull anything out until you pay first. How does anyone sleep with the tv cranked up so load? Why would he be so inconsiderate knowing that she is sleeping? Why does the sound go off when child(boy) calls mommy? No hooker climbs through a window. If it was a neighbor that he was sneaking in he wouldn't potentially expose her by turning the tv up load enough to wake your girlfriend. Who cranks up porn unless they are trying to hide their own moans? Who cranks up porn when a child(3 plus or minus)is home? There was sex happening in your home and if your girlfriend and your cousin were the only two adults home, I can't explain it. The only people that know the truth are your cousin and girlfriend, ask your cousin to take a polygraph.

[aliveagain]

I have tried to get the name but it keeps coming out Bon or Bonnie to me.

[drifter777]

Here is what I picked up.

18:45 woman sighs

19:28 him....just cut it

22:39 woman, put your hands inside(maybe movie)

27:09-2713 woman, ah ah aaaaa orgasm

27:26 small child, mommy, sound goes off until 27:36 as if someone is listening

28:20 sound of slap

28:21 woman, orgasm sound oh, oh, oh man another slap

28:37 small child, mommy I don't wanna go.....something

28:45 woman long sigh

29:10 woman, oh my God thank you, not same voice as tv

 

Had he called a hooker you would have herd her ask for her money, they don't pull anything out until you pay first. How does anyone sleep with the tv cranked up so load? Why would he be so inconsiderate knowing that she is sleeping? Why does the sound go off when child(boy) calls mommy? No hooker climbs through a window. If it was a neighbor that he was sneaking in he wouldn't potentially expose her by turning the tv up load enough to wake your girlfriend. Who cranks up porn unless they are trying to hide their own moans? Who cranks up porn when a child(3 plus or minus)is home? There was sex happening in your home and if your girlfriend and your cousin were the only two adults home, I can't explain it. The only people that know the truth are your cousin and girlfriend, ask your cousin to take a polygraph.

 

22:39 woman, put your hands inside(maybe movie)

 

No movie. OP: can't you recognize the voice? It' breath-y audible but I would think you would know if it's G.

Edited June 29, 2013 by drifter777

[E050822]

This is G...there were no kids at home, so what you suggested you thought you heard could have been a commercial on TV. Plus, our kids are older than 3.

[E050822]

It's G...I agree, I think he would recognize the breathy voice if it had been me. That's why we are reaching out to try to see if anyone can decipher the name M says, or if they can decipher any other things that would key us in to who it was. Because it wasn't me, that much I know for sure. I just wish he would understand that I'm telling the truth when I tell him repeatedly that I would never do anything with his cousin or anyone other than him.

[crederer]

I'm confused here....both partners are commenting on this thread like a debate? Is that what's happening? If so, stop. Talk about it privately as you both are clearly just looking for public opinion for the sake of backing your own arguments.

 

Also, this relationship sounds real messed up. Move on for chrissake. I've had relationships fail due to reasons far less messed up than this.

Edited June 30, 2013 by crederer
More stuff

[BreatheForABit]

BreatheForABit, What is your plan at the end of all of this? Do you guys still want to be together?

 

We do want to be together. But going to wait on the audio dude I guess!

[E050822]

It was B's idea to put this on the forum. I thought we were going to post separate ones, but he wanted to add my take on things to the original post.

 

We do have issues, just like most couples out there...no one is perfect, right? But we love each other and are trying to work through this situation the best we can. I know what the outcome will be when it's all said and done.

[Divasu]

I think your both off your rocker, sorry. There's nothing on that audio tape that proves anything (or disproves it for that matter) aside from some birds chirping in the background, someone walking around the house, watching TV and peeing in a toilet.

[reardear]

The cousin running away is a huge red flag imo.

 

G: Polygraph tests are not that accurate. In fact, their purpose isn't even to detect lies. People also often bluff by saying, "I'll even do ___!" in the hopes that the other person will think they are being genuine and so they don't go forward with it.

[HEY2147]

Whats your twos take of the other mans voiced saying "what?" after M says "look at me" then M says "lets go over there" I mean i definitely heard a mans voice and it could explain why M ran away has he ever giving you two the impression that he is a homosexual or has participated in homosexual activity I posted my discovery of another mans voice but I don't think you two saw that.

[E050822]

Hi, this is G. If you listen closely and try to tune out the TV sounds, there are sounds of a sexual nature. Both mine and B's best guesses are that M either snuck someone into our house and does not want to admit it, or he was watching a porno and pleasuring himself...or both. B, unfortunately, thinks that I was the other person involved, even though I have told him many times that I have always been faithful to him.

[E050822]

I suggested the polygraph because I knew I was not the other person. I was not fighting the polygraph in any way, shape, or form...I was the one who wanted it sooner rather than waiting a few days or a week. If I had been being dishonest, I would not have wanted to go through with the polygraph.

[E050822]

Hey...I suppose that is another possibility for us to consider. I will have to listen to the audio again to see if I hear two different male voices as well.There were a couple of times when he stayed with us where I questioned if he had some bisexual tendencies, now that I look back at it. They were very fleeting thoughts, but still there all the same.

 

I did see that post you had on here, but I must have read it too quickly and misunderstood it...I thought your post was saying that "man" & M were the same person. But now that you've cleared that up for me, I will definitely be listening to the audio again!

[Divasu]

Hi, this is G. If you listen closely and try to tune out the TV sounds, there are sounds of a sexual nature. Both mine and B's best guesses are that M either snuck someone into our house and does not want to admit it, or he was watching a porno and pleasuring himself...or both. B, unfortunately, thinks that I was the other person involved, even though I have told him many times that I have always been faithful to him.

 

This is part of the problem in itself. Whatever was/is on that audio tape, was transcribed for us first, by someone who is (a) suspicious; and (b) biased, and BEFORE we were given the opportunity to listen to it. So, we weren't really able to listen to it and draw our own conclusion based on what we think we heard, but rather, what was suggested to us based on his own interpretation of it.

 

Like I said, I can't confirm nor deny what was on that recording. I don't know what the layout of the house is, I am not familiar with the occupants voices, and the TV in the background interferes with what I am able to hear.

[E050822]

Yes, you're right. In hindsight, I think just the audio should have been put on here by itself, without any explanation...or at least not so many details, anyways.

[HEY2147]

I suggest you buy Ambient noise reduction headphones if you dont know what they look like google it I have those and I put the volume way up which allowed me to hear to other mans voice and the door close 15:03 was the exact time i heard the other person and its not uncommon for 2 homosexual men to have homosexual activities while watching heterosexual porn could explain a lot of things like you said that he was prostitute for a former profession if Im not mistaken so its could be a higher chance that he might of had male clients could also explain way the male grunts were so load and the female moans were so quite just a thought

Edited June 30, 2013 by HEY2147

[HEY2147]

Here what I suggest you buy http://geekshavelanded.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/skullcandy-jib-500x500.png

 

and when you rehear the audio make sure to put the volume up you can catch a lot of things good luck

[AverageCat]

Hearing the audio now - love CSI.

 

The question is what was the relation btw your gf and your cousin before this.

Also is this cousin of yours attractive (i.e. if your gf was single do you think she'd do him)

 

It's hard to believe 2 people had sex without talking on their first encounter and without having done it before.

 

On the other hand your gf already lied to you... And believing that she fell asleep, exactly when the sexual encounter happened is kind of stupid.

 

Something is off from all this and your gf knows something being the only one in the house...

 

Last question, why do you let someone untrustworthy sleep in your couch?

 

EDIT: Also to the girl - Love is not equal Faithfulness. My opinion is you have some kind of lying disorder, where right now you're even lying to yourself. If you are then think about the poor guy you're creating trust issues in.

 

Either way this is obviously over. 7 months is not that much either

Edited June 30, 2013 by AverageCat

[E050822]

Hey...thanks for the input on the better headphones. I will make sure B checks out that brand. M was not a prostitute himself, but has been known to employ those services from time to time.

[E050822]

This was my second time meeting the cousin. First meeting was very brief a couple of months ago, and I did not have a very good impression of him. Second meeting was when he came to the house earlier this month to stay with us while he did some work on a house that my boyfriend is trying to rent out. Again, not a good impression...a lot of drinking, drugs, etc...plus my bf had told me about prostitutes he had employed and a few other things about the guy's personal life that were less than stellar. Needless to say, I was not attracted to him in the slightest...not only is he not my type, but all of the bad things I knew about him disgusted me.

 

As for your "lying disorder" idea, I can assure you that is not the case. I have a guilty conscience and hate lying ...I end up getting consumed by the guilt and end IP telling the other person involved. I have been faithful to B from the very first day I met him, before we even decided to start a relationship (about a week after meeting initially)...so I don't have anything to feel guilty about, because I was not involved with the cousin in any way.

[AverageCat]

This was my second time meeting the cousin. First meeting was very brief a couple of months ago, and I did not have a very good impression of him. Second meeting was when he came to the house earlier this month to stay with us while he did some work on a house that my boyfriend is trying to rent out. Again, not a good impression...a lot of drinking, drugs, etc...plus my bf had told me about prostitutes he had employed and a few other things about the guy's personal life that were less than stellar. Needless to say, I was not attracted to him in the slightest...not only is he not my type, but all of the bad things I knew about him disgusted me.

 

Reading this makes the story more interesting. So you and the cousin have never been alone together. Do you have his number?

 

One theory I'm thinking about is that the guy might have texted some other person (guy or girl).

 

An easy easy way to find out what the truth is, would be for you to call the cousin while your bf is listening and thanking the cousin for the great time.

 

If anything happened the guy will understand. If not he'll be like WTF?

[E050822]

I had to jump through hoops to get the cousin's phone number. My boyfriend was unwilling to give it to me because he knew M would just sent anything that may (or may not have) happened. So one night when B and I were fighting about it, he left for a few hours. I looked in the phonebook of his old phone and found M's brother's phone number and texted him asking for M's number.

[E050822]

DENY, not sent...oh, how I love auto correct.

[AverageCat]

why wouldn't your bf give you his number? Call him on loudspeaker and thank him for the performance. If he's like WTF, then you'll both know you didn't do it.